I'M looking to meet.someone who can.put some effort into me

Min Idealperson From the writings of Innermind --'Just because a woman wants to be your fuck hole, doesn't mean she is or wants to be treated like a fuck hole.

There's a difference, the majority of us understand it. The problem is, we're now dealing with a generation raised on porn and because of different social norms and ways of communicating, some people forget about the humanity of our sexual desires and just turn people into potential fantasy dispensers and try to by-pass the simple act of connecting with another human being before expecting something from them sexually.

I've always been creeped out when a woman tells me everything she's willing to do with me sexually without even exchanging basic discourse with me. As if I'm nothing more than a fill in the blank in her desires to be sexually dominated.

No one is here to please you and fulfill your sexual wishes. But there are lots of people probably who would be happy to please you, fuck you and build some sort of friendship or relationship or whatever other dynamic and connection you're looking for if you actually put in the effort to court them and connect with them without any sense of false entitlement and if nothing pans out, then at least you got to learn about someone new and can continue engaging with people properly instead of trying to turn people into your own personal fuck hole before you've even gotten to know them or find out if they have any interest in being that for you.

No one here is a fantasy, they are all real people with their own lives going on. If you treat people like they're nothing more than a fantasy freak, then that's exactly where your sexual experiences are going to stay, in a fantasy in your head.

By the way. Someone who doesn't want to fuck you is not damaged, dumb or making a mistake. They just don't know who the fuck you are and you've given them no reason to want to get to know you, let alone fuck you!!!



There
are several basic things I insist on -
Teeth
No black men please
Good hygiene
An ability to carry on an English c
onversation
A job .-don't want you money just shows stability
No drugs or excessive alcohol

Someone who can make me laugh and smile.