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sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
5/6/2016 4:21 pm

That's a big NO !!!


_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
5/6/2016 4:55 pm

Nope !

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Couple4you321 50M/61F
26 posts
5/6/2016 5:57 pm

No.
I know I would try, but it wouldn't work. I just enjoy oral - giving and receiving - too much to give it up.


classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
5/6/2016 7:16 pm

As long as she likes receiving that's fine with me.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


sika41 62M
643 posts
5/6/2016 9:16 pm

Gut response is no , however if I really liked them and they were all for me giving it to them I might be able to deal with it !


love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
5/7/2016 2:01 pm

It depends on the person.


107jerry 63M
218 posts
5/7/2016 6:02 pm

I remember dating years ago and a girl that could give good oral was a definite keeper. The ones not interested were the first ones weeded out.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
5/7/2016 9:13 pm

Maybe for a while but she would have to be exceptional in other qualities and I doubt it would last long. I would miss giving her oral sex as I get great pleasure from it. Her giving me BJs, would not miss that much but perhaps because I have never had a woman who really cared doing much and don't know what I am missing.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


startthefun13 58M  
146 posts
5/8/2016 9:12 am

i have to say no... it has to be a give and take. i want someone the wants to please me as much as i want to please them..plus i love to 69...mmm


Bdysnatcher 61M
1021 posts
5/8/2016 3:27 pm

Good question but on the other hand could you date someone who did not like getting oral sex???


TallDark052 60M
55 posts
5/8/2016 3:28 pm

there are other things to be had!!!


rm_bc1422129 39M
40 posts
5/8/2016 4:05 pm

As long as it's not sexless, I can go without a bj.


sh_secretlunches 44G
13 posts
5/8/2016 7:57 pm

We talked about this before answering. Although the answer will differ from person to person one thing was quite resounding from the ladies in our group. Any man that told them "If you want to date me you must suck my dick" the reaction would be a toss up between punch them out or laugh in their faces. Sounds rather selfish when you hear it that way.


xxxsasaxxxx 48M
719 posts
5/9/2016 2:25 am

no >>!?*


montecarlo37 45M
298 posts
5/9/2016 8:10 am

Oral is fun.. I like to give and recieve Oral


sh_secretlunches 44G
13 posts
5/9/2016 8:23 am

TurboLoverInEO 52M 5/9/2016 4:01 am:A good point, sh_secretlunches! I agree it does come across as selfish when phrased that way. To me, full reciprocation means exactly that. I make it very clear that I absolutely love eating pussy, and that I'm not the slightest bit hesitant about tasting and swallowing my own semen during sex.

Ladies answering here. Sadly Turbo there are quite a few guys that say they love giving as much as receiving and it turns out it is a line to receive more. We talked amongst ourselves and we have all experienced at one point or another guys that just wanted blow jobs and they never returned quite as much as they took. After a bit a woman doesn't want to do it any longer as it becomes almost an obsession with many of them to just get a bj. As we said, no one wants to be used. I am sure if men just gave a woman oral and then walked away time and again they wouldn't want to do it any longer either. At least a woman can have sex after she orgasms, but men ejaculate and for the most part they are done, they roll over and go to sleep. Not all men do this, but far too many and the obsession over receiving a blow job becomes a jaded mark for women as they get used over and over again and nothing comes from it for them. Thank goodness not all men are like that, but too many are so if approached with 'you have to suck my dick or you are not worth dating' or that 'we forgive you' crap, it is a major turn off and would make that man a loser to us so there wouldn't even be a chance of doing it for him later. Ruin it at the start and you ruin it for the long term as well.

It should be two people, not just one getting all the time and that happens more than it should.


leblond16 67M
389 posts
5/9/2016 12:04 pm

I have been lucky I guess every woman that I've been with did and I love to, so it was never an issue. if I do meet a woman who did not I'd be fine as long as she let me do her.


Ladywithatti2d 83F  
485 posts
5/9/2016 8:42 pm

I just can't help but post this. How the hell would you same guys like it if someone referred to your daughters as a sucker or a non-sucker? Would you really appreciate it if a guy came along and all he could see in your daughter was a suck machine? How totally degrading and insulting and you seriously think this makes you look attractive?? I know this is a sex based site and I know the subject, but you don't have to be so freaking crude as to refer to women as suckers. I wouldn't want any of you near me or my daughters if you talked like that and thought like that and didn't see them as anything else other than suck machines. No, it isn't dirty or bad, but Christ you make it so disgusting and selfish when you talk about women in that fashion. I would hand you a stinking vacuum cleaner and tell you to let that suck you with that attitude and your mouths. No wonder you aren't getting it. I could actually see a father decking a guy for referring to his little girl as a sucker or asking does she suck. You don't have to be so freaking crude!!


funbitimes 45M
1329 posts
5/10/2016 3:50 am

Been there, done that, dumped them


playagay1 59M  
50 posts
5/10/2016 5:54 pm

I'm a gay submissive bottom so I need no reciprocation. As long as I am on the receiving end, I'm happy.


aki0804 38M
75 posts
5/11/2016 12:12 am

i agree with "unykorn 57F" it really depends on other things involved but for sure Oral give a lot of fun to both one should always do it


Depeer3 63M
146 posts
5/11/2016 1:42 am

I like to give and to receive oral, but she does not want to that is up to her, as long as I can give her oral I will be happy.


DrkDik4U 51M  
115 posts
5/11/2016 10:11 pm

Yeah I dated someone who didn't do oral and frankly she didn't even like oral performed on her. I think she didn't like it because she felt obligated to reciprocate which she didn't want or never did.


kissjada35 48F
1 post
5/14/2016 7:17 am

Oral sex pleases both parties involved. It should've been one of the ten commandments.. lol


sexcbeach1 42M
314 posts
5/15/2016 2:01 am

thanks for coming up with a lot of intelligent polls & blogs on here Kiamatorii! I know of bloggers constantly reply to each others posts! but for some one like me who is open minded and willing to learn new things, you make it so much more enjoyable! xx


bob144333 69M
201 posts
5/15/2016 9:13 am

oral sex is all part of foreplay if she didn't swallow that would be ok but I like giving oral as well as getting it so no blow no go


newbernmale4u 59M
3 posts
5/15/2016 6:44 pm

I want to say no..but it would depend on everything else..


bn19743 49M
12 posts
5/19/2016 8:04 pm

It definitely wouldn't be the deciding factor for whether to date someone, but it would certainly be a disappointment if she had no interest.


brow690 59M

5/20/2016 11:02 pm

Nope!!!!


bllkn2it2 47M

5/21/2016 10:31 am

It's gotta be included with the mind blowing foreplay so a definite no , I tried it once , with all the other crap you deal with in a relationship must get some good head to tolerate it


tongueman6 74M
42 posts
5/21/2016 12:01 pm

No way does a lady have to give me oral.
But if she does seems a bonus. I like to have a lady cum while I'm down there crunching my head with those soft upper legs squirting uncontrollably pulling my head in tightly.
Only thing I have a problem with is breathing my mouth full and nose drilled into tummy LOL! But thats ok I know the big orgasm is happening


sexcbeach1 42M
314 posts
5/23/2016 7:11 am

Hey! just thought id let u know. that crazy lady Sandra -d or whatever the fuck she calls herself and her fotoshopped ass wich pops up on every blog. how annoying. she is trashing trans people again! ive caught her out b4 saying trans people are useless! she should start up her own site and leave everyone on here the fuck alone!


anjaan58 62M
1347 posts
5/23/2016 11:22 am

It's a person as whole .. not one or two issues


ArmAndHammer24 37M
2 posts
5/24/2016 5:27 am

Oral is awesome!


FunCrossdressing 65T
31 posts
5/30/2016 10:12 am

as long as they like to receive oral sex I like giving better than receiving anyway


georgecrete 42M
42 posts
5/30/2016 4:37 pm

i love theem both but givingis my fetish


funsnellvillecpl 66M/54F  
3901 posts
6/1/2016 5:10 am

oral both ways or it wont work


rm_glbummm 56M
5 posts
6/5/2016 2:46 am

I WILL NEVER FORGET HER SHE WEIGTED ABOUT 75 POUNDS SHE WAS 33 AND A RED HEAD AND SHE MADE UP FOR IT BED


MusicMan83 40M
12 posts
6/5/2016 10:57 pm

Sure, there are so many other reasons why I'd love being with them but that "addition" would make it all the better though. It's perhaps the best way a woman could ever show how much she really cared to please me & turn me on, ya know?


mr2freaky26 35M
14 posts
6/7/2016 6:33 pm

Does a know if I can give it to you why you can't give it to me


lukin2lern 40M
2 posts
6/9/2016 2:34 am

..... i'd like it way more often ..... so yea.... no to rationing....


pussplunger2 62M
17 posts
6/13/2016 12:48 am

yes, been there done that....she liked it up the ass though, so there was that


Ryodo123 47M
5 posts
6/15/2016 3:54 pm

I'm ok with not getting but love to give and worship a woman


_The_Maverick_ 56M  
12 posts
6/19/2016 5:59 am

Hell no!


hiper173 65M
584 posts
6/19/2016 9:12 am

YES


rob5ice2 66M
199 posts
6/19/2016 4:22 pm

I say yes I could. Becuase there is so many other things going on. Or other senses involved.

Things like how you few around the person. And how they make you feel. Heck unless we are talking about one night stands, etc. Its the 'parts of many', at play in a relationship.

Heck, at some point in life everyone has some kind of issue. Are we going to call it quits every time one things isn't perfect. And sometimes it is better to go for the bang for the buck. What every that last the longest for both to enjoy.

lol..of course not talking about drug addition, etc.


rdxrgn 59M
144 posts
6/19/2016 7:53 pm

It's a requirement for me -- and I do give oral too, as much as a gal wants/likes.


Use_me_im_yours 60M
4 posts
6/23/2016 8:54 pm

I love licking a woman's pussy so much and waiting to catch all her juice that I do not think I could deal with sitting next to a woman and knowing that I will never taste her pussy


iforbigun 61M
56 posts
6/24/2016 7:55 am

I love to give it if i get it back its a bonus


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
6/26/2016 11:00 am

I generally tend to avoid persons with strong beliefs against certain things
It usually is a sign of malfunction
As for the specific question on oral, it's simply a game - lots more to play apart from that

P


VictoriasBBC 40M

6/29/2016 4:55 pm

I don't care I'm not that into oral myself on the receive side


freddybeachcock 47M
24 posts
7/8/2016 6:54 am

Tough one to answer


SUBMARINECHIEF9 69M
96 posts
7/9/2016 11:19 am

Dearest Kiamatorii,
For Three(3) Months Now I Can Not Get Your Profile As They Say " Profile Not Available ". And I Do Miss You So Very Much !!!!
Your So Very Loving Friend GEORGE


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