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Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
1/28/2016 3:28 pm

Oh Yes!! I can lick and kiss all night long!!!!!


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
1/28/2016 3:33 pm

I believe it's good for both parties involved, gets thing set in the right direction.


love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
1/28/2016 3:51 pm

I love foreplay don't get me wrong. Just sometimes when want 2 have a quicky. You go with the moment.


Woodyeverready 65M
1187 posts
1/28/2016 3:56 pm

Absolutely it is. The foreplay is just as good sex as is penetration.

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CumTheWorld 60M
68 posts
1/28/2016 4:01 pm

Its all in the anticipation....so yes...foreplay is essential......


tmcb2 87M
616 posts
1/28/2016 4:04 pm

Show me a guy that don't lick it and i'll steal his girlfriend


leglovers4u 62M/60F
703 posts
1/28/2016 4:05 pm


Foreplay is very essential for a good sex play time. When we have a quickie though we don't foreplay.


umaykissmesoftly 67F  
344 posts
1/28/2016 4:16 pm

Absotulely!!!!


MekiddingU 70M
194 posts
1/28/2016 4:52 pm

Definitions are everything and every general rule has exceptions.

Define "essential." I'd pose essential is close but doesn't quite match up with "necessary." (Like in HS geometry: they can be very similar while not"congruent.")

Usually, it IS necessary. We can quibble over if that's 95 to 99.9% of the time and "your mileage may vary."

Exceptions? Some people are pre-heated. It's quickie time! Or they are always on/ready. Not just horndog guys fit that. I met this woman... more than once...

And what of those kinky individuals who SEEK the shock of being play-taken with no warning, who turn sopping wet when a violation fantasy act-out is sprung on them? It's NOT for everybody, but for those who can and DO recreationally indulge such urges, "lets flirt and cuddle for an hour first" is not part of setting that scene. Ask them if they find such play hot. Yet please NEVER contemplate that play without LOTS of deliberation and trust ahead of time. And if your partner has PTSD or DID/MPD issues, even if this play is requested, it very well might be a tragically bad idea.


kzoopair 72M/71F
25831 posts
1/28/2016 4:53 pm

No- it isn't. Sometimes a quickie can be outstanding. There are other ways of ramping up desire besides foreplay. You might remember when fantasies of the zipless fuck were popular. It was pure fantasy- few people actually experienced it, but it was all about instant attraction and a heat that was turned up so high that the players could not wait to get at each other, and rutted like animals, getting it over with quickly. No foreplay!

So- foreplay can certainly enhance a sexual experience, but essential? Nah.

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I_willoralu 49M
1684 posts
1/28/2016 5:25 pm

I would say that it is not essential but it is so much netter with it. It is possible to have good sex without foreplay but with foreplay it becomes great sex.

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gooodloven2 70M
381 posts
1/28/2016 5:59 pm

foreplay is sex,or at least the way good sex starts...fucking with out it is never as good as with it......mrs Patrick henry was heard shouting give me fore play or give me freedom to find a new man


I_BRANDY 75M

1/28/2016 8:14 pm

GOOD being the operative word here. Who hasn't banged one out at one time or another. The point here is that all sex is good, just some is better than others.


Pulsator552001 63M
132 posts
1/28/2016 10:59 pm

In most cases, it's essential, but just now and then there's the urge to tear each others' clothes off and fuck the living daylights out of each other.


cozzycouple 66M/66F  
588 posts
1/28/2016 11:03 pm

Foreplay doesnt always have to be physical. Mental approach at dinner or in conversation can be classed as this because the stimulated mind kicks in . Stimulate the mind and the body goes along


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
1/29/2016 1:31 am

To me foreplay is essential, creates a great mood for both. Kisses


oral2plsu2 64M
5820 posts
1/29/2016 5:53 am

I want to know who the 2 people are that voted no....lol


1ForeTex 70M
120 posts
1/29/2016 10:14 am

It is something that get some women and men started. Others there ready all the time. And others just being close things happen on there own. I had a young lady few days ago came up to me needed help ! I helped her move a few things and invited in to warm up. Next thing I know she gave a kiss we went from there .


_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
1/29/2016 12:49 pm

Always !

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vopesahe 62F
36414 posts
1/30/2016 1:01 pm

To me foreplay is essential

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ArkSoutherngent5 69M  
910 posts
2/1/2016 2:57 pm

Very Much so....!!!!!!!!!!!!!


IamYurSoulMate 51M
13 posts
2/1/2016 3:37 pm

THE KEY IS..WHAT IS MOST IMPORTANT..WHAT IS UTMOSTLY PARAMOUNT..IS TO BE SENSITIVE TO EACH OTHERS NEEDS..IF YOU ARE SENSITIVE TO HER NEEDS..THE LOVE IS REAL..THE PASSION IS TRUE..THE DESIRE IS FULFILLING..BEING SENSITIVE TO ONE ANOTHERS NEEDS BRINGS A POSITIVE COGNIZANCE THAT YOUR LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER MAY NOT ALMOST BE EQUAL..THAT ON ANY GIVEN DAY..OR NIGHT..THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP MAY NOT ALWAYS BE 50-50..THAT SOME DAYS IT MAY BE 60-40..THAT SOME NIGHTS IT MAY BE 70-30..OR SOME TIMES IT EVEN MAY BE 80-20..BUT IF YOU ARE SENSITIVE TO EACH OTHERS..THAT UNDERSTANDING ASSUAGES PERCENTILE VARIABLES..AND YOUR TRUE PASSIONS..OF YOUR REAL DESIRES..SHALL BE SENSUALLY SATISFIED..AS THEY ARE FULFILLINGLY FULFILLED!


6969phantom666 58M
492 posts
2/8/2016 6:38 am

Yes to me it is essential.

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MFM4UNOW 66M
57 posts
2/15/2016 9:16 pm

Yes foreplay is essential. I enjoy the slow buildup of excitment as I do my best to get my partner excited.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
2/16/2016 2:09 am

    Quoting lyojim:
    Foreplay is for the biggest sex organ we have, the mind
Amen !! Nuff said


floydman2015 56M  
3302 posts
2/27/2016 10:17 pm

For me foreplay is essential it sets the mood for those involved and can be very exciting and intense before the actual intercourse happens and it only will intensify the sex and make it even hotter.


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