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Can we really have what we want in life?  

shadesofginger2 70F  
146 posts
8/26/2015 8:31 pm
Can we really have what we want in life?

Hey y'all! Hope your week is going well so far!

I have listed five "bucket list type of questions" below. If you were guaranteed at least one of the five happening, which one would you choose?

Please feel free to write why you chose what you did in the comment section. Also share any important thoughts and feelings about the other choices.

Have fun!

Ginger
The love/soulmate of your lifetime
All the money you needed to enjoy life the way you'd like to
To be able to say that you've had at least one lover who satisfied you completely
A small network of friends that you can trust to have your back
A large social and business network that gives you connections


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
8/26/2015 8:55 pm

The love/soulmate of your lifetime seems to be the hardest of those to find and keep.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


shadesofginger2 replies on 8/26/2015 9:11 pm:
Sad but too often, true!

timexxx69 54M
64 posts
8/26/2015 9:20 pm

I'm Sorry To say The Great Love Of My Life Passed Away 21 Months Ago. But Rather than Feel Cheated Or Angry, I Feel Blessed to Have Had the 15 Years Together We Did. Over Time I Came to realize That Some Poor People Go thru An Entire Life Time Looking For What I Was Given. You Can Talk About The Softest Or Warmest Or Most Exciting Part Of a Woman All You Like. But For Me, Nothing Compares To The Privilege Of Being Allowed To Touch Her Heart.


shadesofginger2 replies on 8/27/2015 11:13 am:
That is beautiful indeed! And, I believe that is the KEY to knowing you have--or had (so sorry for your loss)--the love of your life: you touched her heart and she touched yours. Without that, not much else counts in the long run Bless you!

Ginger

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
8/26/2015 9:30 pm

The love of my life passed away in 2008, so i opted for the money.

What the hell, you only go around once, right ?


shadesofginger2 replies on 8/27/2015 11:16 am:
That's right! As they say, money can't buy happiness but neither does be. Lol! And love is still out there, and another could be special in its own way. Best of luck to you

Ginger

Lynn1812 54M
4928 posts
8/26/2015 10:03 pm

At this point, I'm picking the money. Butt he small network of true friends comes in close.

Not "Lamborghinis, swimming pools and French Riviera" money... Just all my bills are taken care of, gas for my Harley and food on my table kind of money.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
8/26/2015 10:43 pm

I go with the money Chuck!For philanthropic reasons!

Using more than all the road!


shadesofginger2 replies on 8/27/2015 11:19 am:
Well, that's all cool, too!

Ginger

ncsc62 61M
75 posts
9/3/2015 7:03 am

I'll take the money, then the small network of true friends. Kind of what @Lynn1812 had said.


shadesofginger2 replies on 9/5/2015 7:35 am:
Hi there! Thanks for stopping by to read my blog and for making a comment. I always enjoy visitors

Best wishes,

Ginger

needu2cumwme 68M  
18 posts
9/23/2015 10:56 am

If you can find the true love / lover / soul mate, then everything else falls in place.
I haven't given up hope of finding mine!!


shadesofginger2 replies on 9/28/2015 5:33 pm:
Well, you sound like a romantic! I hope you find her! Thanks for sharing

Ginger

ramma815 60M
15 posts
1/8/2016 5:45 am

I voted for all the money. I don't find all the other stuff really necessary.


shadesofginger2 replies on 1/10/2016 6:03 am:
Thanks for stopping by and making a comment

Happy New Year!

Ginger

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