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tricky one to answer this one but in my opinion cheating and lying are unforgivable because no one deserves the heartache you will put your partner through by doing either of these, but I'd also put jealousy into the lying category only reason to ever be jealous is if they don't trust you. as for a person changing that is fine we all change in various ways every day.
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Cheating. He came home one day and told me he had 3 more children with someone else. I never looked back, I'm still running from that moment in my life
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Cheating, she's out of my life forever if she cheats. No discussion about it. Aut viam inveniam aut faciam Tips for Guys to Meet Women Things i miss most about relationships
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I once got a letter from a lover telling me that she was pregnant and marrying the father.
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If there is love there is always forgiveness. If I would ever fall out of love then nothing is forgivable.
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8/18/2015 4:08 am |
i hate lies
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1 post 8/18/2015 8:00 am |
It can and does depend a little on the lie.....but heres my thing.....if they will lie to me....they will cheat on me more than likely too...
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Cheating is basically saying you ain't shit to me! So it's over!
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I would put abuse at the top of the list...all the ones listed have to many verables My true love is out there somewhere
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Life is painful, and joyful... Its about choices and letdowns... Im grateful to be alive... Jeremiah...3680392
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Life is painful, and joyful... Its about choices and letdowns..by. Im grateful to be alive... Jeremiah...3680392
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8/20/2015 1:08 am |
If you've been in any number of relationships, these things happen. Sometimes I forgive, sometimes I end it. Every situation is different.
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Very interesting answer and I agree with you. I've been cheated out of so many things in my life. From believing someone was marrying me because he loved me and found out he had a child from another woman after we were married, being cheated out of the family I wanted when I was told by him that he never wanted a family 5 years after our son died, when if I had known that then, I would have left him to find a man who wanted to give me the family I wanted and deserved and cheated when my son died, cheated out of having the joy of my life taken from me.
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She turned religious and our sex play vanished so here i am looking for cyber and online fun
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I dont think any of these things are unforgivable..Maybe if you included stealing from me or if the cheating was with a close friend or enemy i would be able to choose one.
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Lying is definitely at the top. I value honesty. Lying seems to lead to other negative values and also spirals out of control. It's easier to tell an honest story than having to make up numerous revisions of the same lie.
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Lying is the worst with me. If they change in any way if it's a positive or negative they can be supported but if they lie right off the bat they're not gonna be bothered by cheating most likely as well. Jealousy can be worked around like change even if a pain.
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As the victim of a lying cheating woman I can honestly say that it was the lies that hurt me the most. Remember that opinions are like assholes, we all have one and most of them never get seen in public. FS
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9/1/2015 4:10 pm |
Can't handle a liar! David & Joy
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To me cheating & lying could count as the same answer most times.
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What do you find unforgivable in a relationship. ... Oh I don't know, maybe getting fat. Lack of sexual interest. Lying and cheating are expected over longer periods of time, years and decades, so that can be forgiven and worked out, if it is worth it. Usually people use their significant others lying and cheating as an out, as a quick-release to get out of what they are tired of being in, anyway, so working at it, is no longer an option. Everything, to certain people, can be unforgiveable, but then so can everything be completely forgivable. Suppose it just depends on the person.
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i hate cheating, cant take that.
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voted for cheating. I think that shows a lack of respect for your partner. It would take something pretty special to forgive that person 100%. If they cheat on you again, do you forgive them again? Or is that a fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me?
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everything is ok...but cheating is unforgivable
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10/17/2015 8:49 pm |
i can forgive almost anything
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10/6/2016 2:53 am |
Cheating is the worst, just another form of lying. The trust you share, just slowly fades away.
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