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one4fun002 56M  
8 posts
8/16/2015 12:54 pm

 tricky one to answer this one but in my opinion cheating and lying are unforgivable because no one deserves the heartache you will put your partner through by doing either of these, but I'd also put jealousy into the lying category only reason to ever be jealous is if they don't trust you. as for a person changing that is fine we all change in various ways every day.


cumholdme 53F
35 posts
8/16/2015 1:06 pm

 Cheating. He came home one day and told me he had 3 more children with someone else. I never looked back, I'm still running from that moment in my life


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
8/16/2015 1:42 pm

 Cheating, she's out of my life forever if she cheats. No discussion about it.


ManticoreEye 52M
616 posts
8/17/2015 12:06 am

 I once got a letter from a lover telling me that she was pregnant and marrying the father.


thrillofitall42 69M/63F
18 posts
8/17/2015 8:51 am

 If there is love there is always forgiveness. If I would ever fall out of love then nothing is forgivable.


makis97 55M
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8/18/2015 4:08 am

 i hate lies


rm_dmo769 44M
1 post
8/18/2015 8:00 am

 It can and does depend a little on the lie.....but heres my thing.....if they will lie to me....they will cheat on me more than likely too...


rm_eatufuk2nite 40M
2 posts
8/19/2015 2:10 pm

 Cheating is basically saying you ain't shit to me! So it's over!


bamaguy37 57M
28 posts
8/19/2015 7:41 pm

 I would put abuse at the top of the list...all the ones listed have to many verables
My true love is out there somewhere


TexasBeast11inch 40M/41F
31 posts
8/19/2015 9:16 pm

 Life is painful, and joyful... Its about choices and letdowns... Im grateful to be alive... Jeremiah...3680392


TexasBeast11inch 40M/41F
31 posts
8/19/2015 9:17 pm

 Life is painful, and joyful... Its about choices and letdowns..by. Im grateful to be alive... Jeremiah...3680392


danteszippo 59M

8/20/2015 1:08 am

 If you've been in any number of relationships, these things happen. Sometimes I forgive, sometimes I end it. Every situation is different.


softladypat4you 64F
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95 posts
8/21/2015 2:37 pm
    Quoting  :
Very interesting answer and I agree with you. I've been cheated out of so many things in my life. From believing someone was marrying me because he loved me and found out he had a child from another woman after we were married, being cheated out of the family I wanted when I was told by him that he never wanted a family 5 years after our son died, when if I had known that then, I would have left him to find a man who wanted to give me the family I wanted and deserved and cheated when my son died, cheated out of having the joy of my life taken from me.


likpus 73M
19 posts
8/22/2015 10:54 am

 She turned religious and our sex play vanished so here i am looking for cyber and online fun


jayohnine 57M
29 posts
8/25/2015 7:55 pm

 I dont think any of these things are unforgivable..Maybe if you included stealing from me or if the cheating was with a close friend or enemy i would be able to choose one.


rm_skykid25 44M
136 posts
8/31/2015 8:32 am

 Lying is definitely at the top. I value honesty. Lying seems to lead to other negative values and also spirals out of control. It's easier to tell an honest story than having to make up numerous revisions of the same lie.


enticed2002 40M  
30 posts
9/1/2015 8:42 am

 Lying is the worst with me. If they change in any way if it's a positive or negative they can be supported but if they lie right off the bat they're not gonna be bothered by cheating most likely as well. Jealousy can be worked around like change even if a pain.


rm_FreakSeekin 54M
59 posts
9/1/2015 3:11 pm

 As the victim of a lying cheating woman I can honestly say that it was the lies that hurt me the most.
Remember that opinions are like assholes, we all have one and most of them never get seen in public. FS


DavidAndJoy2 59M/46F

9/1/2015 4:10 pm

 Can't handle a liar!
David & Joy


muffdiver1A2 71M
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13 posts
9/1/2015 5:29 pm

 To me cheating & lying could count as the same answer most times.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/4/2015 2:22 pm

 What do you find unforgivable in a relationship. ... Oh I don't know, maybe getting fat. Lack of sexual interest.

Lying and cheating are expected over longer periods of time, years and decades, so that can be forgiven and worked out, if it is worth it. Usually people use their significant others lying and cheating as an out, as a quick-release to get out of what they are tired of being in, anyway, so working at it, is no longer an option.

Everything, to certain people, can be unforgiveable, but then so can everything be completely forgivable. Suppose it just depends on the person.


powercaps716 67M  
83116 posts
9/11/2015 7:10 am

 i hate cheating, cant take that.


OlBlueEyz46 57M  
769 posts
9/14/2015 7:15 pm

 voted for cheating.

I think that shows a lack of respect for your partner.

It would take something pretty special to forgive that person 100%. If they cheat on you again, do you forgive them again? Or is that a fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me?


rm_drvippin 40M
25 posts
9/17/2015 4:29 am

 everything is ok...but cheating is unforgivable


lovefukgirls 52M

10/17/2015 8:49 pm

 i can forgive almost anything


uncut6476 73M

10/6/2016 2:53 am

 Cheating is the worst, just another form of lying. The trust you share, just slowly fades away.


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