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Men, what do you find more attractive on a woman?
Men, what do you find more attractive on a woman? |
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The last option should have been two options. I would always go with personality. “For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.” ― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy Much like this site Visit my Blog for my adventures.
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Both is the EASY answer my friend. I'm looking for the hard one. For I love asking myself these questions ---- looking back at those past lovers. what attracted you to them the most, or first... if that's easier for you.
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I disagree with you. I've met extremely happy overweight people that were extremely positive, had great attitudes were very warm and enlightening. I clearly see for you it is physical attributes though, over the soul within -- since you went on and on about appearance. I am curious though, how would you rate what you said? as far as attitudes... negative? or positive?
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I will be watching this one, very interested to find out how the fellows really feel!
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The last option should have been two options. I would always go with personality. interests to me are the personalities clothing
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Personality and interest because for me physical attributes don't necessarily define a person. I want an attraction the carries depth and weight not a shallow one.
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Personality and interest because for me physical attributes don't necessarily define a person. I want an attraction the carries depth and weight not a shallow one.
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I like that answer.
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That you sure do. kavorka – 1. an animal-like power that attracts a person to you, even if you spoke innocently for just a few minutes 2. quote: “It is a Latvian word which means ‘the lure of the animal'” — Latvian Priest 3. if possesed by it, only known remedy is a recipe of ten cloves garlic, three quarts of vinegar… 4. episode: The Conversion, Seinfeld.
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Personality & interests of course, but ultimately both choices Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!
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No, you're just an asshole. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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The easy and hard answer-attraction is a balance shared between both a persons Physical Attributes/Body/Beauty [and] the individuals Personality & Interests. Neither is exclusive in my opinion. Excluding bell curve fringes. I see the question as having two experiential parts. What is the initial attraction and what are the variables involved in sustaining attraction? I will admit that through online dating my initial attraction is mostly physical. I see a picture, make an assessment on next step...read profile or not and move forward. Again, initial physical attributes are not the exclusive attraction mechanism however. Reading an email or blog post may generate an interest without the viewing of any photo. Long term attraction for me, involves some manner of attraction that is shared toward an individuals body AND mind. I need both elements and to fully appreciate them time is needed. Peace.
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Personality and interests for sure. Yes look are important too, but when it comes down too, id rather date someone who has similar interests with a good personality before someone with great looks, but nothing in common.
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I watched my wife walk by my apt and I would check out her fine body. I didn't know her but I found her physically appealing. I got to know her and found her to be the kindest person I have ever known. It will be 10years of marriage next month and if I didn't find her attractive I wouldn't have continued. After I met her, her personality and our common interests have kept us together.
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I appreciate the question, SP72, but you have left us with an impossible choice. I cannot distill a person down to either of these factors, nor can I say that either is absolutely more important. Anything can be taken to too great an extreme. My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.
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Must have a good personality.
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1 post 6/12/2015 5:53 am |
I would love to be PC on this one but sorry, attraction starts with appearance
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pretty hard to get a sense of the heart and soul of a person on here, from the limited information available on most profiles, so AdultFriendFinder is more of a catalog of toys to try and possibly keep for future future play... New toys are what AdultFriendFinder is all about.
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6/12/2015 11:15 am |
I think the initial attraction is always purely physical while the residual or long term affection is derived from her personality and common interests. {=}
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I appreciate the question, SP72, but you have left us with an impossible choice. I cannot distill a person down to either of these factors, nor can I say that either is absolutely more important. Anything can be taken to too great an extreme.
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There are no right or wrong answers -- I was just saying I disagree with your assessment, plain and simple. I did however ask you a question that must of touched a soft spot on you --- for, you didn't answer -- and, you took it emotionally.
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And you, of course, look like a GQ model, which gives you the right to be... you.
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The easy and hard answer-attraction is a balance shared between both a persons Physical Attributes/Body/Beauty [and] the individuals Personality & Interests. Neither is exclusive in my opinion. Excluding bell curve fringes. I see the question as having two experiential parts. What is the initial attraction and what are the variables involved in sustaining attraction? I will admit that through online dating my initial attraction is mostly physical. I see a picture, make an assessment on next step...read profile or not and move forward. Again, initial physical attributes are not the exclusive attraction mechanism however. Reading an email or blog post may generate an interest without the viewing of any photo. Long term attraction for me, involves some manner of attraction that is shared toward an individuals body AND mind. I need both elements and to fully appreciate them time is needed. Peace. When you pick up a book, do you skim for images first or go to the back to read what it's about? I tend to be a reader and then, go look for images.
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I watched my wife walk by my apt and I would check out her fine body. I didn't know her but I found her physically appealing. I got to know her and found her to be the kindest person I have ever known. It will be 10years of marriage next month and if I didn't find her attractive I wouldn't have continued. After I met her, her personality and our common interests have kept us together. I'd bet the majority is this way.
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Usually the first thing any of us has is a physical attraction, i.e. you see someone on the street or in a store and your hooked. But as many of us can probably attest to that attraction can were off fast if there is no personality or some very strange behavior behind those great looks!
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Have to vote for physical beauty, because after all if I'm not attracted to her it's a no go, but in saying that her attitude plays just as large a role in that decision, so you're not playing fair.
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1 post 6/12/2015 1:56 pm |
Truth is what we notice first is always the physical stuff but that attraction is very short lived for me if she has a nasty personality and few interests that we can pursue together.
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1 post 6/12/2015 1:57 pm |
Physical attributes more immediately obvious. Personality leaves a more lasting impression...but can take time to surface. I know that I have lost at times by rejecting the body before discovering the heart.
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If a woman can't carry a conversation, and doesn't have a sense of humor, time to move on, don't care what the rest of her looks like.
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If we didn't have the ability to post pictures online, only blogs. What would be the attraction? A person's ability to express themselves through writing/typing. I've done exactly this on one other site..no pic just me chatting. I find it more interesting drawing someone's humour and personality out than I do pictures, as most aren't current pics and the camera adds weight. So for me, expression. How they act and react to conversation. The flow. Our minds are our best features, good, bad or ugly!
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I agree with you. How can some one be attracted to a person personality and interests if they have never met that person. For me it start with physical attraction, I have to see something about that person that make me want to talk to them. After that comes personality and interests.
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If they have no personality/interests it won't last no matter how hot. But it can't be too far the other way either. This is more of a sliding scale. The hotter you are the less your personality can be. The better your personality the less important looks can be. Too far either way and it's a bust.
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Personality and their Eyes. The eyes tell a lot about a person
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quite interesting
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A - the body / beauty comes before B - personailty. If your not an "visual" noticeable "A" then what is it about "B" that is "visual" - nothing. Its the finality of "B" that clinches the attraction.......in most cases. Not known too many sober blokes to go chasing ugly women because of their visual personality.
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Physical absolutely .That is what attracts you .Personality is what keeps you........later .huggs
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you know it is not quite fair to have only two choices. What about sexual preferences, lol?
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The sexies tihing I have saw on a woman...ME happym; My true love is out there somewhere
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I think personality, but more specifically she has to be horny & naughty ! Since U chat or IM on here, I wanna know she's got a dirty mind. Big girls need lovin too ! If she can tell me what she would do to me & read what I would do 4 her, she's not 4 me...
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to me attractive are her physical attributes, but sexy is her personality, intellect, interests, willingness to explore, etc.
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Personality and interests for sure. Yes look are important too, but when it comes down too, id rather date someone who has similar interests with a good personality before someone with great looks, but nothing in common.
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I've known some of these people as well --- looks definitely aren't everything.
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Must have a good personality.
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I would love to be PC on this one but sorry, attraction starts with appearance
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pretty hard to get a sense of the heart and soul of a person on here, from the limited information available on most profiles, so AdultFriendFinder is more of a catalog of toys to try and possibly keep for future future play... New toys are what AdultFriendFinder is all about.
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A good personality brings out those good looks, doesn't it?
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I think personality, but more specifically she has to be horny & naughty ! Since U chat or IM on here, I wanna know she's got a dirty mind. Big girls need lovin too ! If she can tell me what she would do to me & read what I would do 4 her, she's not 4 me...
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you know it is not quite fair to have only two choices. What about sexual preferences, lol?
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I like a woman that can be confident in herself. The way she walks, they way she acts towards others and if she smiles goes a long way in making her very attractive.
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The sexies tihing I have saw on a woman...ME happym;
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I think of a plain girl, and I think she's pretty hot in her own right. I don't find dumb girls at all attractive. Maybe some fella can help me see why that's hot? Anyone??
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to me attractive are her physical attributes, but sexy is her personality, intellect, interests, willingness to explore, etc.
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Incomplete Poll! Too many missing options. If this is the limits in the scope of what anyone sees, there's no sense trying to explain the details of what attributes a man/woman actually analyzes in those moments when they are first noticed. No to mention the continuing analysis once they actually meet.
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if i cant carry on a conversation with some one
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Incomplete Poll! Too many missing options. If this is the limits in the scope of what anyone sees, there's no sense trying to explain the details of what attributes a man/woman actually analyzes in those moments when they are first noticed. No to mention the continuing analysis once they actually meet.
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Personality & interests of course, but ultimately both choices I love your profile name, btw..
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I think the initial attraction is always purely physical while the residual or long term affection is derived from her personality and common interests.
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And what, attracted you to those guys?? Interests.. or.. giggle
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Usually the first thing any of us has is a physical attraction, i.e. you see someone on the street or in a store and your hooked. But as many of us can probably attest to that attraction can were off fast if there is no personality or some very strange behavior behind those great looks! What's step three.
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Have to vote for physical beauty, because after all if I'm not attracted to her it's a no go, but in saying that her attitude plays just as large a role in that decision, so you're not playing fair.
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AMEN.
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Thank you for your input!! I liked it.
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Physical absolutely .That is what attracts you .Personality is what keeps you........later .huggs
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in my opinion.. a guy will be attracted to a female for her looks but will stay for her personality (inner qualities)
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1 post 6/15/2015 8:50 pm |
Where is the 3rd choice: "She leaves quietly in the morning" ! One usually eye balls prior to talking to a lady so i took that as the attraction, then hopefully; she does have a great personality.
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)n this site at least, I would have to say personality and interests because I do look at profiles with out pics. If I like what I'm reading, then I proceed from there.
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in my opinion.. a guy will be attracted to a female for her looks but will stay for her personality (inner qualities)
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Oh be honest you notice the looks first its what attracts you to someone first its how nature works.
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MMMhm!
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Where is the 3rd choice: "She leaves quietly in the morning" ! One usually eye balls prior to talking to a lady so i took that as the attraction, then hopefully; she does have a great personality.
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)n this site at least, I would have to say personality and interests because I do look at profiles with out pics. If I like what I'm reading, then I proceed from there. I should of had options for girls though. Hmmm
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Beautiful honest answer, thank you ---- it is why I loved this question. I found myself to be split pretty much down the middle. Going back and forth. I also in knowing a few men ( ) found myself a bit surprised that they were the same. It surprised me. I now though -- find looks having zero to do with my initial interest. I blame all the hot men that write me --- ready to go. I was wondering for awhile there if I was broken. They just raised the bar ---- damn them.
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Of course both are important but I noticed in your question that you put in parenthesis (in the beginning). In that case I would definitely choose the physical attributes as that is what I initially notice first. Personality takes time to find out which comes after talking to someone for a while. People usually choose what imitates their own values and because I am into physical fitness and looking good myself, I value that highly in a woman as that reflects my what I highly value for myself. The physical attributes are important for first impressions which plays a large role in me even wanting to get to know someone in the first place. So long as she at least looks healthy at the outset, she has passed the first impression test for which I will now be willing to put the time in to find out her personality. Of course, I am young male and these values may change over time but for now looks are very important to me.
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Of course both are important but I noticed in your question that you put in parenthesis (in the beginning). In that case I would definitely choose the physical attributes as that is what I initially notice first. Personality takes time to find out which comes after talking to someone for a while. People usually choose what imitates their own values and because I am into physical fitness and looking good myself, I value that highly in a woman as that reflects my what I highly value for myself. The physical attributes are important for first impressions which plays a large role in me even wanting to get to know someone in the first place. So long as she at least looks healthy at the outset, she has passed the first impression test for which I will now be willing to put the time in to find out her personality. Of course, I am young male and these values may change over time but for now looks are very important to me.
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I'm never attracted to pursue someone by looks, it takes more to get me to pursue or want them. I notice them being attractive but keep moving on -- until something else catches my attention and gets me to follow and look into them more.
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most of the people I have been attracted too .. it's been the personaility and interests that have pegged my interest first ... N NnG
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1 post 6/19/2015 8:12 am |
I like/prefer a combination of both. She could be drop dead hot but no personality or even a hint of one or she is just a flat out mad angry or negative person and it destroys her appearance.
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Your question was what attracts you the most in the begging. With that being said, I think most of you men need to grow a pair of balls!! Stop trying to be some thing your not...or should I say stop tying to make folks think your some one your not... everyone has different tastes and things that get them hot. That being said, there so one that thinks you are hot!! So get out there and have some fun and don't take it personal if and a hottie don't click.. Good luck
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Depends ...is it a booty call, or relationship?
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if they dont have anything up stairs why waste your time down stairs
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1 post 6/28/2015 12:08 am |
For the sole reason that you said "in the beginning" meaning I hadn't talked to her, I had to go w/ looks. There has to be some level of attraction there or it just doesn't work. Now if I meet two girls and one is drop dead gorgeous but is a total airhead, then I'm going to pick the less physically attractive but can carry on a conversation one every time.
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i prefer me
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In my opinion both matters.
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Depends on the situation really.... If your out and an attractive person walks past, do you look ??? Yes, so its looks that attract because you have no idea of that persons personality. Sometimes you can talk to a person who looks stunning and yet feel no sexual connection, you just don't click or that person may just be a total bitch/arsehole. We each have our own attractions,what we look for in another person, for me its not just about body shape, the way they walk, confidence in themselves,or a cheeky smile, a glint in their eye, all come to the forefront and help create an attraction. If you look like Miss World but treat me like shit .....I'm not staying around. LOOKS attract us , but PERSONALITY keeps us......
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Initially I was thinking......this is a touch choice. But..........its no secret in my circle....that I am a ASS man. if I woman has a nice basketball shaped ass.........then nothing else matters. I have fucked some really ugly women.......but because of their ass.......I was all in and hooked. So.....if I meet a woman who looks good..............has a great personality........and a basketball ass..........I might still be mostly attracted to her ass. How shallow is that? lol But I do want my woman to have a sexy personality........and that comes largely into play........if she is lacking in the ass department. "Be selective in your battles, for sometimes Peace is better than being right" *********WARNING********* Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects or any purpose - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile including name or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
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Personality and interest are top most priority for me.. but they come into picture when i have interacted with someone.. til then (means initially) selecting partner goes on P{hysical Attributes/Body/Beauty
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it's not an either or - first thing for me is 'do you have ass? and are u relatively easy on the eyes?' - then even if you are a dumbo and i want to fuck then you will get fucked at-least once - but for longer term relationship then in addition to ass you must have personality and brains
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7/13/2015 6:24 pm |
Really, for me there has to be a bit of both. I'm an engineer so unintelligent will definitely kill anything physical for me. I don't want to have to hold my smart ass comments
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