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Men, what do you find more attractive on a woman?  

sensualpassion72 59M/51F
360 posts
6/11/2015 5:59 am
Men, what do you find more attractive on a woman?

I just read a post that made me curious enough to know ----

What do you find overall that attracts you the most? ( In the beginning. ) If you had to pick one over the other.

Her Physical Attributes/Body/Beauty

or

Her Personality & Interests
Physical Attributes/Body/Beauty
Personality & Interests


Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
6/11/2015 6:33 am

The last option should have been two options.

I would always go with personality.

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sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/11/2015 6:50 am

    Quoting  :

Both is the EASY answer my friend. I'm looking for the hard one. For I love asking myself these questions ---- looking back at those past lovers. what attracted you to them the most, or first... if that's easier for you.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/11/2015 7:01 am

    Quoting  :

I disagree with you. I've met extremely happy overweight people that were extremely positive, had great attitudes were very warm and enlightening. I clearly see for you it is physical attributes though, over the soul within -- since you went on and on about appearance. I am curious though, how would you rate what you said? as far as attitudes... negative? or positive?


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/11/2015 7:03 am

    Quoting HornyBBWnBBC614:
    I will be watching this one, very interested to find out how the fellows really feel!
Have you asked yourself the question? when you are first attracted to a man, is it his physical vessel ( body appearance ) or the soul of the man, within --- ( personality/interests )?


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/11/2015 7:04 am

    Quoting Ienjoythetaste:
    The last option should have been two options.

    I would always go with personality.
Nope.

interests to me are the personalities clothing


goldenrule102 63M
589 posts
6/11/2015 7:44 am

Personality and interest because for me physical attributes don't necessarily define a person. I want an attraction the carries depth and weight not a shallow one.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/11/2015 7:55 am

    Quoting goldenrule102:
    Personality and interest because for me physical attributes don't necessarily define a person. I want an attraction the carries depth and weight not a shallow one.
AMEN!!!!!!


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/11/2015 1:00 pm

    Quoting  :

I like that answer.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/11/2015 4:51 pm

    Quoting  :

That you sure do.


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kittyliquor519 58M
2730 posts
6/11/2015 8:12 pm

Personality & interests of course, but ultimately both choices

Everyone is on a different plane of intelligence. Some people's plane has not taken off yet!!


kzoopair 72M/71F
25831 posts
6/11/2015 8:24 pm

    Quoting  :

No, you're just an asshole.

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NaughtyInSO 113F
9755 posts
6/11/2015 9:03 pm

    Quoting  :

And you, of course, look like a GQ model, which gives you the right to be... you.

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NaughtyInSO 113F
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6/11/2015 9:04 pm

    Quoting kzoopair:
    No, you're just an asshole.
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fffinder2000 60M
128 posts
6/11/2015 10:10 pm

The easy and hard answer-attraction is a balance shared between both a persons Physical Attributes/Body/Beauty [and] the individuals Personality & Interests. Neither is exclusive in my opinion. Excluding bell curve fringes. I see the question as having two experiential parts. What is the initial attraction and what are the variables involved in sustaining attraction?
I will admit that through online dating my initial attraction is mostly physical. I see a picture, make an assessment on next step...read profile or not and move forward. Again, initial physical attributes are not the exclusive attraction mechanism however. Reading an email or blog post may generate an interest without the viewing of any photo. Long term attraction for me, involves some manner of attraction that is shared toward an individuals body AND mind. I need both elements and to fully appreciate them time is needed. Peace.


cherrycokepdx77 46M
6 posts
6/12/2015 3:33 am

Personality and interests for sure. Yes look are important too, but when it comes down too, id rather date someone who has similar interests with a good personality before someone with great looks, but nothing in common.


StangCobra 63M
147 posts
6/12/2015 3:55 am

I watched my wife walk by my apt and I would check out her fine body. I didn't know her but I found her physically appealing. I got to know her and found her to be the kindest person I have ever known. It will be 10years of marriage next month and if I didn't find her attractive I wouldn't have continued. After I met her, her personality and our common interests have kept us together.


ProfPlayful 53M
3861 posts
6/12/2015 4:58 am

I appreciate the question, SP72, but you have left us with an impossible choice. I cannot distill a person down to either of these factors, nor can I say that either is absolutely more important.

Anything can be taken to too great an extreme.

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_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
6/12/2015 5:40 am

Must have a good personality.

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sirtonguesmith69 59M
1 post
6/12/2015 5:53 am

I would love to be PC on this one but sorry, attraction starts with appearance


firedup_19 62M
1684 posts
6/12/2015 6:08 am

pretty hard to get a sense of the heart and soul of a person on here, from the limited information available on most profiles, so AdultFriendFinder is more of a catalog of toys to try and possibly keep for future future play... New toys are what AdultFriendFinder is all about.


WNCCuckoldcpl 50M/51F

6/12/2015 11:15 am

I think the initial attraction is always purely physical while the residual or long term affection is derived from her personality and common interests.

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sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/12/2015 11:20 am

    Quoting ProfPlayful:
    I appreciate the question, SP72, but you have left us with an impossible choice. I cannot distill a person down to either of these factors, nor can I say that either is absolutely more important.

    Anything can be taken to too great an extreme.
You don't have to choose between.. Just what initially attracts you more on average... In the beginning?


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/12/2015 11:27 am

    Quoting  :

There are no right or wrong answers -- I was just saying I disagree with your assessment, plain and simple. I did however ask you a question that must of touched a soft spot on you --- for, you didn't answer -- and, you took it emotionally.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/12/2015 11:29 am

    Quoting NaughtyInSO:
    And you, of course, look like a GQ model, which gives you the right to be... you.
I think his comment, he himself proved false.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/12/2015 11:31 am

    Quoting fffinder2000:
    The easy and hard answer-attraction is a balance shared between both a persons Physical Attributes/Body/Beauty [and] the individuals Personality & Interests. Neither is exclusive in my opinion. Excluding bell curve fringes. I see the question as having two experiential parts. What is the initial attraction and what are the variables involved in sustaining attraction?
    I will admit that through online dating my initial attraction is mostly physical. I see a picture, make an assessment on next step...read profile or not and move forward. Again, initial physical attributes are not the exclusive attraction mechanism however. Reading an email or blog post may generate an interest without the viewing of any photo. Long term attraction for me, involves some manner of attraction that is shared toward an individuals body AND mind. I need both elements and to fully appreciate them time is needed. Peace.
It's always both for long term --- but initial, is where I was talking about. I can make it simpler for everyone.

When you pick up a book, do you skim for images first or go to the back to read what it's about? I tend to be a reader and then, go look for images.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/12/2015 11:33 am

    Quoting StangCobra:
    I watched my wife walk by my apt and I would check out her fine body. I didn't know her but I found her physically appealing. I got to know her and found her to be the kindest person I have ever known. It will be 10years of marriage next month and if I didn't find her attractive I wouldn't have continued. After I met her, her personality and our common interests have kept us together.
Congrats!!!!

I'd bet the majority is this way.


needafwb13 64M
128 posts
6/12/2015 12:55 pm

Usually the first thing any of us has is a physical attraction, i.e. you see someone on the street or in a store and your hooked. But as many of us can probably attest to that attraction can were off fast if there is no personality or some very strange behavior behind those great looks!


lookin4herMI 46M
152 posts
6/12/2015 1:51 pm

Have to vote for physical beauty, because after all if I'm not attracted to her it's a no go, but in saying that her attitude plays just as large a role in that decision, so you're not playing fair.


me39hornxxy 52M
1 post
6/12/2015 1:56 pm

Truth is what we notice first is always the physical stuff but that attraction is very short lived for me if she has a nasty personality and few interests that we can pursue together.


man4u2dew 66M
1 post
6/12/2015 1:57 pm

Physical attributes more immediately obvious. Personality leaves a more lasting impression...but can take time to surface. I know that I have lost at times by rejecting the body before discovering the heart.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
6/12/2015 3:00 pm

If a woman can't carry a conversation, and doesn't have a sense of humor, time to move on, don't care what the rest of her looks like.


HappyChick43 52F
1042 posts
6/12/2015 4:53 pm

If we didn't have the ability to post pictures online, only blogs. What would be the attraction?
A person's ability to express themselves through writing/typing.
I've done exactly this on one other site..no pic just me chatting. I find it more interesting drawing someone's humour and personality out than I do pictures, as most aren't current pics and the camera adds weight.
So for me, expression. How they act and react to conversation. The flow.
Our minds are our best features, good, bad or ugly!


extra1980 61M
301 posts
6/12/2015 5:04 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree with you. How can some one be attracted to a person personality and interests if they have never met that person. For me it start with physical attraction, I have to see something about that person that make me want to talk to them. After that comes personality and interests.


slapstick74 49M
35 posts
6/12/2015 7:58 pm

If they have no personality/interests it won't last no matter how hot. But it can't be too far the other way either. This is more of a sliding scale. The hotter you are the less your personality can be. The better your personality the less important looks can be. Too far either way and it's a bust.


ArkSoutherngent5 69M  
910 posts
6/12/2015 9:28 pm

Personality and their Eyes. The eyes tell a lot about a person


narada1976 48M
7 posts
6/12/2015 11:18 pm

quite interesting


cozzycouple 66M/66F  
588 posts
6/13/2015 4:02 am

A - the body / beauty comes before B - personailty. If your not an "visual" noticeable "A" then what is it about "B" that is "visual" - nothing. Its the finality of "B" that clinches the attraction.......in most cases. Not known too many sober blokes to go chasing ugly women because of their visual personality.


anything4u58 65M
18 posts
6/13/2015 5:29 am

Physical absolutely .That is what attracts you .Personality is what keeps you........later .huggs


Mic2004U2 68M
32 posts
6/13/2015 7:38 am

you know it is not quite fair to have only two choices. What about sexual preferences, lol?


bamaguy37 57M
28 posts
6/13/2015 8:51 pm

The sexies tihing I have saw on a woman...ME happym;

My true love is out there somewhere


Melon_guy 66M/66F
45 posts
6/13/2015 11:46 pm

I think personality, but more specifically she has to be horny & naughty ! Since U chat or IM on here, I wanna know she's got a dirty mind. Big girls need lovin too ! If she can tell me what she would do to me & read what I would do 4 her, she's not 4 me...


craven_nc 54M  
79 posts
6/14/2015 5:40 am

to me attractive are her physical attributes, but sexy is her personality, intellect, interests, willingness to explore, etc.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:03 am

    Quoting cherrycokepdx77:
    Personality and interests for sure. Yes look are important too, but when it comes down too, id rather date someone who has similar interests with a good personality before someone with great looks, but nothing in common.
Me too ---


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:04 am

    Quoting  :

I've known some of these people as well --- looks definitely aren't everything.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:06 am

    Quoting _JKH_:
    Must have a good personality.
I'm a personality above looks girl ---- 100%. I don't even notice the looks until I see the personality in words or, otherwise.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:07 am

    Quoting sirtonguesmith69:
    I would love to be PC on this one but sorry, attraction starts with appearance
Smiles. Thank you.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:09 am

    Quoting firedup_19:
    pretty hard to get a sense of the heart and soul of a person on here, from the limited information available on most profiles, so AdultFriendFinder is more of a catalog of toys to try and possibly keep for future future play... New toys are what AdultFriendFinder is all about.
For most, I agree --- but not for all. You watch a few blogs long enough and the heart and soul shine through ---- as it does through conversation and emails.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:11 am

    Quoting  :

A good personality brings out those good looks, doesn't it?


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:12 am

    Quoting Melon_guy:
    I think personality, but more specifically she has to be horny & naughty ! Since U chat or IM on here, I wanna know she's got a dirty mind. Big girls need lovin too ! If she can tell me what she would do to me & read what I would do 4 her, she's not 4 me...
She's not for you or she is?


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:13 am

    Quoting Mic2004U2:
    you know it is not quite fair to have only two choices. What about sexual preferences, lol?
Just consider those under, "interests"


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:14 am

    Quoting AmTrdr:
    I like a woman that can be confident in herself. The way she walks, they way she acts towards others and if she smiles goes a long way in making her very attractive.
AMEN!!


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:14 am

    Quoting bamaguy37:
    The sexies tihing I have saw on a woman...ME happym;
I want pictures. Giggle


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:16 am

    Quoting  :

I think of a plain girl, and I think she's pretty hot in her own right. I don't find dumb girls at all attractive. Maybe some fella can help me see why that's hot? Anyone??


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/14/2015 7:17 am

    Quoting craven_nc:
    to me attractive are her physical attributes, but sexy is her personality, intellect, interests, willingness to explore, etc.
Good answer. I'll take a both -- with that description.


ProfessorNaught 111M
1406 posts
6/14/2015 11:25 am

Incomplete Poll!

Too many missing options.
If this is the limits in the scope of what anyone sees, there's no sense trying to explain the details of what attributes a man/woman actually analyzes in those moments when they are first noticed. No to mention the continuing analysis once they actually meet.


CindyNPete 57M/57F  
6 posts
6/14/2015 4:07 pm

if i cant carry on a conversation with some one


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:02 am

    Quoting ProfessorNaught:
    Incomplete Poll!

    Too many missing options.
    If this is the limits in the scope of what anyone sees, there's no sense trying to explain the details of what attributes a man/woman actually analyzes in those moments when they are first noticed. No to mention the continuing analysis once they actually meet.
This poll is exactly how I want it for what I wanted answered. You're free to do a poll however you wish, yourself, if you'd like.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:04 am

    Quoting kittyliquor519:
    Personality & interests of course, but ultimately both choices
Ultimately, yes.

I love your profile name, btw..


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:15 am

    Quoting WNCCuckoldcpl:
    I think the initial attraction is always purely physical while the residual or long term affection is derived from her personality and common interests.
For the majority, yes -- but not all.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:16 am

    Quoting  :

And what, attracted you to those guys?? Interests.. or.. giggle


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:17 am

    Quoting needafwb13:
    Usually the first thing any of us has is a physical attraction, i.e. you see someone on the street or in a store and your hooked. But as many of us can probably attest to that attraction can were off fast if there is no personality or some very strange behavior behind those great looks!
So Step One, Check. Step Two -----

What's step three.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:26 am

    Quoting lookin4herMI:
    Have to vote for physical beauty, because after all if I'm not attracted to her it's a no go, but in saying that her attitude plays just as large a role in that decision, so you're not playing fair.
I am playing fair, laughs, it's a grey question versus black and white. A question of estimates.. meant for what "first" attracts you -- I'd think for anyone, it is a whole bunch of factors in the long run.. ( Or I'd at least HOPE that. )


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:27 am

    Quoting  :

AMEN.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:29 am

    Quoting  :

Thank you for your input!! I liked it.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/15/2015 6:29 am

    Quoting anything4u58:
    Physical absolutely .That is what attracts you .Personality is what keeps you........later .huggs
I don't think I'd ever tire of hearing this...


joshis30 42M
14 posts
6/15/2015 1:52 pm

in my opinion.. a guy will be attracted to a female for her looks but will stay for her personality (inner qualities)


manstan27 66M
1 post
6/15/2015 8:50 pm

Where is the 3rd choice: "She leaves quietly in the morning" !
One usually eye balls prior to talking to a lady so i took that as the attraction, then hopefully; she does have a great personality.


thumper211 57M  
46 posts
6/16/2015 4:08 am

)n this site at least, I would have to say personality and interests because I do look at profiles with out pics. If I like what I'm reading, then I proceed from there.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 4:51 am

    Quoting joshis30:
    in my opinion.. a guy will be attracted to a female for her looks but will stay for her personality (inner qualities)
Thank you for your input.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 4:52 am

    Quoting snoopy892:
    Oh be honest you notice the looks first its what attracts you to someone first its how nature works.
For the majority, probably.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 4:53 am

    Quoting  :

MMMhm!


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 4:54 am

    Quoting manstan27:
    Where is the 3rd choice: "She leaves quietly in the morning" !
    One usually eye balls prior to talking to a lady so i took that as the attraction, then hopefully; she does have a great personality.
Wow, you let her stay over?


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 5:00 am

    Quoting thumper211:
    )n this site at least, I would have to say personality and interests because I do look at profiles with out pics. If I like what I'm reading, then I proceed from there.
I'm this way all the time. Physical looks, don't draw me in --- personality or interests always attracts me and gets me to notice and like them. I think it's weird --

I should of had options for girls though. Hmmm


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/16/2015 10:00 am

    Quoting  :

Beautiful honest answer, thank you ---- it is why I loved this question. I found myself to be split pretty much down the middle. Going back and forth. I also in knowing a few men ( ) found myself a bit surprised that they were the same. It surprised me. I now though -- find looks having zero to do with my initial interest. I blame all the hot men that write me --- ready to go. I was wondering for awhile there if I was broken. They just raised the bar ---- damn them.


Greenstorm1993 38M
25 posts
6/16/2015 4:11 pm

Of course both are important but I noticed in your question that you put in parenthesis (in the beginning). In that case I would definitely choose the physical attributes as that is what I initially notice first. Personality takes time to find out which comes after talking to someone for a while. People usually choose what imitates their own values and because I am into physical fitness and looking good myself, I value that highly in a woman as that reflects my what I highly value for myself. The physical attributes are important for first impressions which plays a large role in me even wanting to get to know someone in the first place. So long as she at least looks healthy at the outset, she has passed the first impression test for which I will now be willing to put the time in to find out her personality. Of course, I am young male and these values may change over time but for now looks are very important to me.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/17/2015 9:53 am

    Quoting Greenstorm1993:
    Of course both are important but I noticed in your question that you put in parenthesis (in the beginning). In that case I would definitely choose the physical attributes as that is what I initially notice first. Personality takes time to find out which comes after talking to someone for a while. People usually choose what imitates their own values and because I am into physical fitness and looking good myself, I value that highly in a woman as that reflects my what I highly value for myself. The physical attributes are important for first impressions which plays a large role in me even wanting to get to know someone in the first place. So long as she at least looks healthy at the outset, she has passed the first impression test for which I will now be willing to put the time in to find out her personality. Of course, I am young male and these values may change over time but for now looks are very important to me.
I'm big on wanting someone to match me as well --- although, I could use someone more into fitness to get my ass in the gym more.


sensualpassion72 59M/51F
3559 posts
6/17/2015 10:01 am

    Quoting  :

I'm never attracted to pursue someone by looks, it takes more to get me to pursue or want them. I notice them being attractive but keep moving on -- until something else catches my attention and gets me to follow and look into them more.


nitro_n_gyro 44M/46F
11 posts
6/17/2015 5:49 pm

most of the people I have been attracted too .. it's been the personaility and interests that have pegged my interest first ...

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imjustme269 51M
1 post
6/19/2015 8:12 am

I like/prefer a combination of both. She could be drop dead hot but no personality or even a hint of one or she is just a flat out mad angry or negative person and it destroys her appearance.


luvs2getsukdoff2 59M  
77 posts
6/19/2015 2:31 pm

Your question was what attracts you the most in the begging. With that being said, I think most of you men need to grow a pair of balls!! Stop trying to be some thing your not...or should I say stop tying to make folks think your some one your not... everyone has different tastes and things that get them hot. That being said, there so one that thinks you are hot!! So get out there and have some fun and don't take it personal if and a hottie don't click.. Good luck


joemastro 64M
13 posts
6/27/2015 12:05 pm

Depends ...is it a booty call, or relationship?


lukeorlucas 43M
449 posts
6/27/2015 7:32 pm

if they dont have anything up stairs why waste your time down stairs


ksufan2000 45M
1 post
6/28/2015 12:08 am

For the sole reason that you said "in the beginning" meaning I hadn't talked to her, I had to go w/ looks. There has to be some level of attraction there or it just doesn't work. Now if I meet two girls and one is drop dead gorgeous but is a total airhead, then I'm going to pick the less physically attractive but can carry on a conversation one every time.


lukeorlucas 43M
449 posts
6/28/2015 6:40 pm

i prefer me


itcurls 41M
59 posts
7/3/2015 6:12 am

In my opinion both matters.


bluelad24 62M
81 posts
7/5/2015 5:35 am

Depends on the situation really....
If your out and an attractive person walks past, do you look ??? Yes, so its looks that attract because you have no idea of that persons personality.
Sometimes you can talk to a person who looks stunning and yet feel no sexual connection, you just don't click or that person may just be a total bitch/arsehole.
We each have our own attractions,what we look for in another person, for me its not just about body shape, the way they walk, confidence in themselves,or a cheeky smile, a glint in their eye, all come to the forefront and help create an attraction.
If you look like Miss World but treat me like shit .....I'm not staying around.

LOOKS attract us , but PERSONALITY keeps us......


Make_U_Cum2016 55M/52F  
2113 posts
7/5/2015 10:46 pm

Initially I was thinking......this is a touch choice.

But..........its no secret in my circle....that I am a ASS man.

if I woman has a nice basketball shaped ass.........then nothing else matters.

I have fucked some really ugly women.......but because of their ass.......I was all in and hooked.

So.....if I meet a woman who looks good..............has a great personality........and a basketball ass..........I might still be mostly attracted to her ass. How shallow is that? lol

But I do want my woman to have a sexy personality........and that comes largely into play........if she is lacking in the ass department.

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rocky2774 49M
565 posts
7/8/2015 3:56 am

Personality and interest are top most priority for me.. but they come into picture when i have interacted with someone.. til then (means initially) selecting partner goes on P{hysical Attributes/Body/Beauty

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hornyriz 73M
5 posts
7/8/2015 6:49 am

it's not an either or - first thing for me is 'do you have ass? and are u relatively easy on the eyes?' - then even if you are a dumbo and i want to fuck then you will get fucked at-least once - but for longer term relationship then in addition to ass you must have personality and brains


workfun101 38M

7/13/2015 6:24 pm

Really, for me there has to be a bit of both. I'm an engineer so unintelligent will definitely kill anything physical for me. I don't want to have to hold my smart ass comments


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