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HappyChick43 52F
1042 posts
10/17/2014 10:26 pm

Yep Im the monogamous, needs a connection bonker. Anything else is meaningless to me.


daybreak45 60M
28 posts
10/17/2014 10:30 pm

There has to be something there and some kind of fore-play.


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
10/17/2014 10:33 pm

"If" I was looking, it would take several dates....I would want to "really" get to know her!


Lynn1812 54M
4928 posts
10/17/2014 10:37 pm

When I feel a connection.


kzoopair 72M/71F
25831 posts
10/17/2014 11:09 pm

I voted for "fuck at the drop of a hat". If I'm attracted to her, I'd even fuck her with her hat on. Or, if we both wear hats. Or on a pile of hats. I'm just trying to be honest. I never have the opportunity anymore, so it's now a moot point, but in the past, when I did have those chances, I grabbed them. An emotional connection makes everything better, but I had quite a bit? a lot? some? of what is now referred to as NSA sex. I did it when I could. I'm married now and in love and so I am faithful. But if I weren't married? I'd still rather be in love, but I'd take what I can get. Waiting for Godot can take a long time.

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crow0h1 53M
100 posts
10/17/2014 11:09 pm

I would prefer a LTR, and however it happens Double live gonzo first meet or build up to it. Talkin dirty to me these days may be enough, hell who knows.

Old neighbourhood adage, kinda crass: Gotta have two tits, a hole, and heartbeat. Everything else...just extras. Think i grew up in an odd place.


boltz3 66M
19 posts
10/17/2014 11:29 pm

I voted the first option, and really had to agree and laugh with kzoopair !!!


bigdaddy1235813 46M
32 posts
10/18/2014 1:07 am

Great poll!!!


Annie_V 54F

10/18/2014 1:59 am

all I need is to feel good about that person. If that doesnt happen in the first hour it aint ever gonna happen

An orgasm a day , makes you so much happier at work and play


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
10/18/2014 3:11 am

i selected extensive phone and internet as it takes me ages to feel ready, and even then it would still depend on the sense of connection being strong when meeting face to face


oroborostwo 44M
651 posts
10/18/2014 7:26 am

If she's hot willing and gets me hard, the sooner the better. As long as we don't get arrested then I will fuck a hot girl anywhere any time. I'm single at the moment but if I wasn't I would still fuck the girl then bring her back to see my girlfriend so she could play to.
I have a policy of only one cock in my relationships and I have it. I also like my girls to be bi, so that we can share. I think bring home strange is the best way to keep things interesting.

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
10/18/2014 2:26 pm

I have noticed your doing more poll.. Good for you get your name out there on another AdultFriendFinder board. I really have to know this person first hugsssssssssssss V

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rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
10/18/2014 4:48 pm

I married three who I did number one with basically even if in two cases more than an hour passed. I chose one because in those cases, and several I didn't marry we just knew when we made eye contact. In retrospect with my first two wives its a miracle we didn't do it in public and ignore everyone around us. You remember from chemistry class what happened when solid sodium was put in water. We reacted like that.

Even I'm a bit shocked by how many women I slept with before we ever went on an actual date --- though in all those cases we were in a committed relationship after.

It's just as well I'm a guy, I would have spent half my life pregnant if I had been a woman. I can and do say no, but don't always see the point.



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JustHere2Cam 56M
14229 posts
10/19/2014 4:25 am

Three dates is usually a good guideline for me. I want to have a good connection with that person, and I have found sex on the first date to be largely regrettable. It put immediate pressure on me to justify having already had sex, and when the connection never developed, it made it more painful to part ways. If we don't have sex and don't develop a connection, parting ways is a lot easier for both.


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veryfunnycple64 60M/60F
21770 posts
10/19/2014 10:53 am

I have to get to know someone....chatting online, talking on the phone, and then a meet and greet! If we have the chemistry then we can negotiate the fun!

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ranchomongo 70M

10/20/2014 12:55 am

I actually have to chat with someone that I m thinking of seeing then I set up a public place to meet with them , over coffee, over drinks , over lunch or dinner.. as we chat I get to have a great conversation I hope and learn more and they might feel more comfortable with me..

after that if it s a no go on there part.. it was an enjoyable evening or lunch and we go on our separate ways no harm no foul..

other wise its "Katie bar the door"..lol


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Luvstoplezeu 65M
234 posts
10/20/2014 7:54 am

I would want to wait and meet and then see if there is some chemistry , otherwise it will not be good. Uusually you know very quickly if things will work out


friendwobenefits 69M
409 posts
10/20/2014 8:48 am

I was tricked by this vote. I see 1 and 2 as kind of the same. Both indicate sex at the first meeting is a definite possibility.


Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
10/20/2014 4:24 pm

oh thought minimum was referring to a dollar amount.....checked it out cuz we've been giving it away free if the sexual compatibility and personality is there.


fun_2000 62M
818 posts
10/21/2014 12:38 am

I voted for no. 1 but in reality I doubt I have the balls for that these days. If she is still keen by the end of the evening then it is all systems go.


1tongue4yall 64M
2205 posts
10/21/2014 6:21 am

I voted other. for me there is no definite answer. with some it might take a long time to get to know them to see if we will click. for some I know it has only taken a few moment to know what was going to happen. I think it is all in the confidence that the other exudes. I met one woman that within two minutes of talking together we both knew what was going to happen and we couldn't wait. so that took about 4 minutes before we were in bed together naked and enjoying.


itzchic824 37F
2811 posts
10/21/2014 7:29 am

I need a connection. I hate the awkwardness of someone I don't connect with on a mental level.

I sent an Angel to watch over you last night, it returned in a hurry. I asked why, it said "Angels can't watch porn." Thanks for fucking traumatizing my fucking Angel!

Don't bother trying to figure me out. Not even the little voices in my head understand me. It's pointless!


spudluvr 73M
547 posts
10/21/2014 9:24 am

In truth, if a woman indicated she wanted it, I doubt if I would say no, regardless of whether we had known each other for minutes of years.

But for me to make the first move - it would take a significant level of connection - lots of conversation, either online or in person, probably equivalent to three dates.


lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
10/22/2014 2:17 am

If it was through a site like this, it generally would take months of "casual" correspondence - reading blogs, exchanging email, occasional one-on-one chat, "stalking" their online activities, lol, to see if their behavior matches their words - before I'd decide if I wanted to meet in person. I spend a lot of time vetting guys, getting background information, family, past relationships, where they are in life, STDs. For the last - MANY - years, I simply haven't been "looking" here, so I haven't really cared about being on any sort of time-table for getting to know or date anyone. THEN usually - at that first meet - I know within the first minute if I'd consider having sex with them. SO fucking on the first date after the months of correspondence doesn't really feel "that" promiscuous to me.

The only time I've hooked up (3 times in 10 years) with guys I met "in real life" - I had already known them for 20 years, or in the case of my last long-term boyfriend, I knew people for 20 years who had known HIM for 20 years. And then it took about a week or two.

I'm not at ALL a fan of sex with strangers.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
10/23/2014 2:47 am

I said at least a 1st date since it's not up to me.During that first date she would be
most likely be staring blatantly at other guys any way.It's always a good indicator
as usual that my topics of conversation where over her head.That's when you
figure if there is going to be sex,It would be like doing it with the guy she was just with an hour before she met you!

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studbullz 44M
54 posts
10/23/2014 5:09 am

WANNA SEE ME CUM IM ME


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
10/23/2014 10:45 pm

No not at all.To many preconceived notions and finding someone down to earth really doesn't exist on the internet.Many say it but they aren't ever truthful.I have never fucked anyone over so it isn't karma.I will give a woman all the time they need
to get intimate some have been very gracious.Unfortunately to many fall for Mr. beautiful and get fucked over and over.Then everyone is evil in their eyes.

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VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
10/24/2014 2:34 am

I was willing to get it on whenever I could when I was single. Free beaches, sexual freedom league, etc. When I married my love, I think I put on all this weight to take myself off the market in spite of my temptation.


tw1sted1 55M
6 posts
10/24/2014 6:31 am

Don't mean to be crass but just be there and be willing. I am not here to look for a soul mate I am here to for kinky sex. I love the community and making friends and have met several nice people here but when it comes to the ultimate reason to be here it's kinky fun sex


MMOHHITTG 30M
1 post
10/25/2014 3:58 am

I just want a lustful partner

If she said she want sex with me, that is enough for me


_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
10/26/2014 6:24 am

ASAP.

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Lkn4funwith2 58M
1216 posts
10/26/2014 5:44 pm

I need to be convinced that the woman is very feminine, NOT feminist, and that she really is into me. If neither condition is met, I do not get turned-on. This can take a few minutes, or several days.


TwistedViper20XX 42M

10/26/2014 8:45 pm

I typically know within five minutes of seeing a woman in person whether or not I want to have sex with her. Whatever else comes from that, depends really on her. Sometimes she opens her mouth and says something, or there's something I notice about her behavior, that makes me think "Yep, she's good for two warm, wet holes, but that's about it."


Lkn4funwith2 58M
1216 posts
10/27/2014 12:16 am

intendadiversion replies on 10/26/2014 7:30 pm:
Can't a woman be a feminine feminist?

Not in MY life... a woman can only be one or the other. It's all about the woman's mind, not her appearance. I do have several feminist female friends, and I do get along well with them, and we also get into some heated discussions, but agree to respect each other. I simply will NOT have sex with any of them, though.


TwistedViper20XX 42M

10/28/2014 10:04 am

intendadiversion replies on 10/28/2014 12:03 am:
So if the two warm hole lady offers you would take her up on it then, right?

There was a time when I would have, but now... not so much. I could see if it was a moment where I just needed to get a nut, but even so I need to at least like a woman before I sleep with her.


TheyCallMeSlick1 37M
41 posts
11/2/2014 11:49 pm

Seems conclusive to me.


chiefconsultant6 74M

11/11/2014 4:10 pm

Other explained: breathing and fun is all it takes...no time limit. Wink and I drop my pants.


averageguy159 36M
36 posts
1/14/2015 3:23 am

she only got to ask


2Tstfulgy 67M
23 posts
1/15/2015 1:09 pm

For to many years all it took was an indication of the desire ...... That lead me to meet way to many bat ass crazy ladies .... and to probably give the impression that I was a bit bat ass crazy , too. lol That attitude kept me from finding someone that I would also want to spend time with outside of the sack ... I am now as interested in the persons total being instead of just the physical side of it ! Though I still admit that the physical side is also of huge importance . lol


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