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perkala 44F
480 posts
7/21/2014 9:43 pm

I figure if a man doesn't bring his A game the first time then why bother.

If he fails his audition then i'm the one not calling back, lol


cravencpl4plym8 53M/47F
109 posts
7/21/2014 9:54 pm

BS- a guy is gonna do his best so you'll be sure and answer the phone when he calls. If he's nit that great the first time it's because he's just not that great....


daveroswell 55M
4567 posts
7/22/2014 12:09 am

I don't follow any theory like that, but then, I'm not considered cool, current, nor do I have sex often. I also rarely have sex on the first date.

I'm also concerned that sex is considered an "audition". But I guess that's why I don't date any more.


thickman322 60M
112 posts
7/22/2014 8:19 am

You don't get a second chance to make a first impression.

He's not speaking for all men.


camper789 69M
2380 posts
7/22/2014 9:28 am

Greetings. Yes, definitely call the next day.


packageman57 67M
1093 posts
7/22/2014 1:27 pm

I try and bring the best I have, but 1st times can be tricky, each learning about the other, what works, what doesnt, each being a bit nervous. It should get better as things progress and each is more comfortable with their partner. Anyone who doesn't communicate in some way afterwards is just a player and an a**hole.


vazzaam1 44M
614 posts
7/22/2014 9:27 pm

may be he was looking for a one night stand or he is just one niter..........look always positive...don't feel down...u had fun move on....if it is meant to be again he will b back.....

keep it real......


GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
7/23/2014 6:26 pm

That does not track.

Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.


trisha_ann_glynn 51T
1982 posts
7/23/2014 7:49 pm

You are confusing "guys" with "men"
Men call back, men don't play hit and run.
Guys want to get sex, vanish, and brag about the conquest.
Because they are afraid of being in a long term relationship.
Men don't have that problem.


Xistan 47M
10 posts
7/23/2014 11:02 pm

I could see some guys doing this, but it is by no means actively practiced by the majority. I always go into sex hoping for the best time ever. If there was any reason to not call afterward, it would be if the sex was so horrible and awkward that we pretty much knew by the end of the night that there wouldn't be a repeat attempt.


tubedinn 63M
93 posts
7/24/2014 8:16 am

Total nonsense... normal people don't hold back or say silly shit like this. Psycho's on the other hand... well anythings possible.


getlucky2132 45M
4996 posts
7/24/2014 6:31 pm

If I purposely blow your mind, I did it for a reason, and its not to blow you off the day after either

Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts!


rm_horniecockie 47M
68 posts
7/24/2014 11:23 pm

there could be a whole bunch of reasons for not calling back but this is definitely not one of them..


_JKH_ 69M
5448 posts
7/25/2014 4:37 am



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gnrnr47 60M
246 posts
7/25/2014 3:49 pm

OK, the very worst that sex can ever be is "good" I tend to give it my all so that I will get a call back or an answered call.


kzoopair 72M/71F
25831 posts
7/25/2014 5:53 pm

Only mindless if you believe it, bullshit nonetheless, even if he's telling the truth. Who the fuck interacts with others on this basis? Do what you want, if it was me, I'd avoid this dickhead.

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strawberrybeary 46F
58 posts
7/25/2014 6:43 pm

dumbest theory ever. he must really hate blow-jobs. i wanna send him a douchebag in the mail. smh


1SoCalSocial 55M
1 post
7/26/2014 1:08 am

The person described definitely has intimacy issues if this is his predetermined mindset before each sexual encounter.

Conversely, if both parties agreed and entered the arrangement as completely NSA, with no provisions or expectations for a repeat, then a follow up call should not be expected but would prove a common courtesy.


golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
7/26/2014 1:12 am

All I noticed is that when the sex was great it sometimes continued for more than just a few months if the connection was there as well. Some I believe are just looking for the ultimate meet and might meet up to 3 times others meet once and turn into texting friends either they have a g/f and were only doing a one time thing for a little spice in their real relationship, others didn't feel such a great connection and leave it at a hit/run. Some reappear out of the blue every 2-3 months. sometimes even a year. So I believe its an individual thing. Just like there are romantic woman there are man looking for a real connection and than there are the ones just looking for the moment of lust


psuedo666 43M
124 posts
7/26/2014 6:57 am

I'm calling bullshit ! look at you, who the fuck could possibly hold back after a hot night with you ?


darkwaterdragon 42M
37 posts
7/26/2014 10:24 am

that lunatic does not speak for all men or any other men other than himself. That whole theory of his is full of shit and you should have punched him in the throat for having the nerve to say something so absurd with a straight face.


partnersincarnal 69M
262 posts
7/28/2014 2:13 pm

Hi, a beautiful woman is never "just" Jane. You seem to be intelligent (but then again, so do and any guy who behaves in that manner is 1, a megalomaniac, 2, misogynistic and finally not worth any woman's attention let alone a woman like you. [3449788]


partnersincarnal 69M
262 posts
7/28/2014 2:29 pm

not all guys are childish, immature selfish jerks like this one appears to be. When I have a partner. my pleasure is often garnered by her satisfaction. [[3449788]


NavyHighlander 41M
8 posts
8/4/2014 11:30 am

I just hate phones, but if I got great sex, I'd at least try to set up a way to meet again.


MechanicalMe 63M
39 posts
8/11/2014 4:20 pm

Yes, all women are the same and if one follows steps 1 through 5, the woman will reach Level X. 1 through 7 will reach Level Y and all the way to 10 will reach Level Z.

Or that, and the guy's opinion which is being asked about is total horse excrement.

Your mileage may vary.


MrPfister 59M
345 posts
9/5/2014 11:51 am

I consider the first time an audition to get invited back for a 2nd time, the 2nd time an audition for the 3rd, etc.


danteszippo 59M

1/6/2015 3:06 am

What kind of guy is this ? I must be the strange one, because after a night of hot fucking, I just want more. I might hold off a bit, so there's not even a hint of desperation, but I will call if she doesn't first.


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