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I have no problem with it ... probably because I'm a generally unaware person about stuff like that. I've never been approached in the real world and rarely here. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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Of course it matters. We approach relationships with the opposite sex differently to how we approach relationships with the same sex. Gay people are of a different sex - there are 8 different sexes - not 2. For most people, it takes practice to learn how to handle, develop and nurture relationships with people who find them attractive, when the attraction cannot be reciprocated.
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I meant to say: "may find them attractive"
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don't have any problem if bi/gay don't make them any different
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I know many bi women (and several lesbians, too), and they are just like any other women I know. I can't think of any bi men that I know (other than one of the more interesting bloggers on here), but I know some gay men, and I don't think it's any different to be around them than any other person. I just don't have a lot of the same interests as they do. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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If they are Bi, I don't care ore even want to know, just keep it to themselves......
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Being straight, it doesn't bother me a bit.. Shared wife -evergreenstatewife
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It doesn't bother me at all just as long as they don't try to hit on me. I work with some bisexual males they seem to know I'm straight and don't say or try anything. If they did I'd just tell them I'm not interested I'd hope that's all it would take. We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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At this point, I’m comfortable in pretty much any situation. Years ago, when a REALLY well done transsexual hit him on me, I found it more funny (that it took me so long to figure it out) than upsetting. Reading the News Damn You Big G Hammered [post 3312759] My Private Blog – Tell me your secrets
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I am straight, as long as they are nice, respectful human being, makes no difference.
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I don't care one way or the other. I am a nudist, played sports, and was in the army so I have been around lots of naked men.
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5/18/2014 10:05 am |
its whatever as long as they don't hit on me
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No difference to me my lady, as long as it doesn't become obnoxious. As for the side question, yes I have been approached matter-of-factly and in that manner I declined. P
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I couldn't agree with you more...xo We have two lives, and the second begins when we realise we have only one - Confucious
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I've no problem with bisexuals, but, yes, it would make me feel uncomfortable if someone of the same sex was 'coming on to me'.
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DAM, LOOK AT ALL THE THINGS MEN AND WOMEN DO THAT ARE OUT OF THE NORMAL GETTING A WOMAN PREGNANT. AND TO THE MEN WHO SAY YES, WOULD YOU TURN DOWN A BEAUTIFUL,SEXY BI SEXUAL GIRL COMING ON TO YOU? NO IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME AT ALL, WHY SHOULD IT?
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I've had a couple "That was odd... was she hitting on me? Do I need to discuss this with her later or was it my imagination?" moments before but so far never had to "have the talk". Essentially: it doesn't bother me, so long as they are respectful of the fact I'm not into women.
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I've had numerous gay friends and not one of them ever came on to me, and a straight friend in California often goes to a gay bar with his gay friend and everyone treats him well --- they have $3 beer night, he'd go to a nude bar for that. The idea that gay or bisexual men or women are always preying on straight people and trying to seduce them is truer in fiction than life. I understand how some people might feel uncomfortable, but with a few exceptions there isn't that much reason. When I was sixteen I sometimes traveled with my aunt who was a representative for a high end make up firm In New Orleans then the trannys couldn't come to the store for the Red Door so we would go to one of the bars in the French Quarter so she could do their makeup (and sell quite a bit too), and too a man/woman every one of them told me essentially, "if one of these bitches bothers you come to me and I'll slap the crap out of her." I was safer than in a football locker room. Truth be told I've been more uncomfortable with a straight woman coming onto me when she had a few drinks around my wife, though Sarah thought it was funny as hell to watch me squirm.  Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated. 
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I don't have a problem with bi sexual men,Its not my thing so if one hit on me i would polietly refuse.
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i dont have any problem with gays/bi, its when they overdo it that i strt getting irritated. some go over the limit!!!
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It doesn't bother me. ~  ~
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1 post 5/20/2014 11:41 am |
So where did you get your research on sexual orientation and intellect ? The only thing I could see, is they have to work harder because of the world we live in; it's not so gay or transgender friendly. most social polls are inaccurate because of poor test subjects or lake there of... People should really stop trying to make themselves feel better as they are really making matters worries for there people and cause problem and slow down equality. you see all your doing is alienating a group, class, race, genders...
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Normally it doesn't bother me. My best friend in the whole world is a lesbian. I did have one person tell me they were bi and it made my skin crawl, but she was a dirty, nasty, gross person,( I don't mean in a sexual way.)
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I am comfortable around other men, bi or straight, in sexual situations so long as they keep their hands to themselves. I'm not in any way interested in having another man touch me. I will be polite up to the point where my wishes are not respected. After that........... !! I am a dedicated lesbian. I love eating pussy! 
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I'm straight and confident , to each their own as long as they don't try to touch me or make a pass at me
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5/23/2014 12:52 pm |
It does not bother me personaly if a guy is bi...but I want my men to be totaly interested in a womans ass not the least bit interested in another mans ass..So for me no Bi men..it is just observation and trial and error I have come the conclusion that most bi men are not good lovers. I a say most as it is only my experience, maybe not others..or maybe they have failed in pleasing a woman?..I don't know.?...but not my preference.. Have a great horny day LUV 
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cannot see the probs this day and age they are what they are if they fancy you so be it not much different to having another girl around who fancies you/or another bloke if your female
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5/25/2014 2:41 pm |
a cock is a cock a pussy is a pussy!!i love them both.i am bi am proud of it.i would only act upon a situation if presented.men dont lie, you are all intrigued,i was and i am not ashamed.i have 3 kids was married but would only marry a female.does not mean i dont want cock!!
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1 post 5/29/2014 5:37 pm |
As long as they can take no for an answer, I have no problem.
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tbh i wouldnt mind as much, i quite like the attention
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Doesnt really matter
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Its all good with me I dont have a care in the world when it comes to that
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1 post 6/10/2014 7:35 pm |
I'm one of the "male, doesn't bother me" guys. I've often thought about same sex sex because I live in an area with a grate many gay couples. The reason I've thought about it is that I'm not really attracted to men, never saw one I wanted to fuck. But it doesn't offend me or make me uncomfortable in any way. Robert Heinlin in His Stranger in a Strange Land postulated that it doesn't matter who we sleep with as long as its based on mutual respect and trust.
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Doesn't make any difference to me personally. Heck, a few years back I met this guy at the dog park who I also see at the gym I go to. About a year ago, he openly told me that he was gay and thought I was very attractive. He told me he decided to become honest about this because he was very comfortable just talking to me, when he came up to me about this I didn't feel any kind of discomfort at all. I still talk to him about working-out tips, sports, our dogs etc..
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Knowing a guy in the bed with us is bi isn't a big deal, as long as I'm sure he isn't a creep and knows to respect my boundaries. I'd expect the same of a straight guy, a bi girl or anyone else I'm sharing the bed with, right?
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I have known a few men that were flat out gay and I probably totally missed a couple that were bi and never noticed. I have never felt uncomfortable around the ones that I knew were gay, primarily because I never felt that they were checkin' me out and of course, they never hit on me. If that had been the case, it surely would have made me uncomfortable. I do get hit on by gay and bi guys here on A FF. This IS, after all, a sex site, so I don't get offended, but I politely refuse the advances.
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6/22/2014 8:43 am |
dosent matter to me we are all free to live our lives the way we choose
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Hi, I think the bi guy thing is much ado about nothing, but maybe that's because I'm secure in my heterosexuality and don't feel threatened should a bi or gay guy hits on me. Why would I?  [3405707]
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being straight and left handed I understand that thought process perfectly. Left handed people are on average more intelligent than right handed people, but like everything else, there are always exceptions to every rule. I've known some incredibly dense lefties and gay or lesbian people. It's who we are as people and I try to judge people by their character, not their sexual orientation or whether or not the're south paws, although I do have an affinity for fellow lefties, we are unique in many ways. [3405707]
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I've yet to see so many convoluted answers on a subject like this particular one. Number one, as long as they accept no as an answer, it's all cool with me and number 2, all people have the absolute right to be left alone once the initial offer is made, no means no in any circumstance. Some thing our American sports "stars" seem to have trouble understanding. Being a father of two daughters, it's a subject I take very seriously. [3405707]
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big sigh here, it's only sex and yes, no means no but if you're hit on by a member of the same sex, just say no thanks. And courtesy is usually appreciated. [3405707]
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I am straight. I have no issue with bi guys and body parts touching - I dont know how you could DP a lady and not have junk touching lol. I have had one guy double team my cock with his wife and that was great, but was more the two mouths working me that was the exciting bit. Al xx Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while you could miss it kiwialibnz
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10/19/2014 2:57 am |
It doesn't matter what their preference is, it doesn't bother me a bit. I get looks and compliments all the time from both sexes. I can't say I blame them a bit!
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