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Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
10/10/2015 4:10 am

It is likely to depend on how far away you are.

“For a moment, nothing happened. Then, after a second or so, nothing continued to happen.”
― Douglas Adams, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
Much like this site

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Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/10/2015 3:38 pm

The concept of the "Chase" is a carry over from the mid to early 20th century, and before. Now, today, losers chase, winners move on, when there is little or no shown interest.

Today, "The Chase", has been virtually replaced with , "First introduction". React too slowly and you potentially risk never hearing from them again. But if they are a loser, you hear from them again and again, and again. ..This is the fallout of cyber technology.

When there is no shown interest from an introduction, then why pursue when there are so many others a keystroke away, who may show more interest.

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“If a man wants you, he will come and get you.” ..... That is true. He should come get you. If the man suffers from shyness or mommy-implanted-nice, the female will dump him quickly enough out of boredom, if she gets with him at all.

Women have not changed that much, but men have become vaginized and shy, therefore having no idea how to turn on a woman, because their mom kept telling him to be nice to girls. Attractive women are not going to pursue those men. He will mostly attract single mothers, and women who have been abused.

If you feel you've got the attention of a good person, don't be a coy dumb ass.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
10/11/2015 1:24 am

Depends on the man... some like myself may be too subtle, and cautious.

Thoughts from the Garden...


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
10/13/2015 7:19 am

I love that "mommy implanted nice"!Well between that and the "daddy you got 30 seconds to choose bitch"Neither of which is wrong."Cleaner sites"I have found more people my age willing to engage.Where sites like this assumptions are first and foremost and discounting people based on the silliest things.It's no wonder those that are doing all the discounting are always making bad choices over and over again.
It works in the movies,in real life very rare!

Using more than all the road!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/14/2015 12:51 am

    Quoting  :

No matter.

I wonder how many shy men are answering no. .... All of them.


anjaan58 62M
1347 posts
10/14/2015 11:20 pm

Most men are mortified of rejection
that said it has to be combo of both taking lead in expressing and taking it forward
sometimes let man lead
sometimes lead the man


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/15/2015 12:34 am

figgy72 replies on 10/14/2015 11:40 pm:
I think everyone is mortified of rejection, naturally; it is part of life.I believe a man should take the lead when seeking out a woman he likes or is attracted to. It is very important for the man to make the first move. Taking the initiative and the balls to go for what you want is sexy and it makes the women feel like she was sought after and special. And I am not talking about, for example, if he is an average guy and the girl he is after is a perfect high maintenance model. The fear of rejection is obvious. He then needs to seek elsewhere because they are probably not a match, or who knows, maybe his gumption will get the girl which is my whole point. His bravado and desire for what he wants trumped his fear. Everyone loves a person with true grit


Fully agree. Men today need to man up.

Even if the woman is of model looking quality. That's the easiest for a confident man to score with because every other guy is peeing in his loafers trying to think up a model level compliment. She doesn't need a compliment. Suckers and mommy's boys compliment. Just be real with her, and see what happens.


anjaan58 62M
1347 posts
10/15/2015 9:39 pm

    Quoting anjaan58:
    Most men are mortified of rejection
    that said it has to be combo of both taking lead in expressing and taking it forward
    sometimes let man lead
    sometimes lead the man
Namaste
Yes what you say is correct
if and when a man is sure of what he wants and desires he sould be bold to go for it


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