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hrdallnght4u 67M

5/13/2016 10:03 am

I am with You Sexy babe..

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


hrdallnght4u 67M

5/13/2016 10:22 am

I have nothing against them..but if You have a friggen cock Your not a Female.

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


rm_FullChastity 65M
2 posts
5/13/2016 10:23 am

I agree to a point with you. Since the semantics of Transgender, Trans-sexual and Transvestite are often confused and interchanged in the public's mind it is often hard to separate them. Since AdultFriendFinder offers a Trans category anyone in the above should be using that and not associating with Male or Female profiles. That said, if a person has gone through the hormone and surgical procedures from MTF or FTM they are legally of the gender they have transitioned to and should use the gender appropriate profile.
Hopefully I understand your concern right in that there is a male using a female profile to illicit a response from males, yes that needs to stop since it is misleading and basically lying, which seems to me to be against the usage agreements of this site.
However with the recent changes AdultFriendFinder has started in their payment structure I don't really think they give a flying F..k as to what we think, since all they want is your money.


Travel_Couple69 58M
1604 posts
5/13/2016 10:56 am

This is obviously a hot button topic. But really, one profile as opposed to what - the hundreds of pro bloggers, fake profiles that AdultFriendFinder creates, fake couple profiles, single women that are really a couple profiles, wanna be porn stars, folks stepping out on their significant partner that really dont have the schedule to follow thru, those that dont have the intention of following thru, those that cant even make up their minds if they are straight or bi and the many inactive and multiple profiles...so really dont see how this ONE profile is so disruptive to the overall bs that abounds on here.

And really, are we going to blame this site because someone isnt as they advertized? Is anyone really surprised in this day and age that folks will lie or leave out full disclosure on an internet site? Should see all the emails we get from straight males saying they really are bi.

To the issue of transgender, not withstanding the physical body parts that may still be present, but folks are going to have to come to terms that individuals and society move at different paces. It makes sense to us that it is possible for a TG to be at the point in their life where they totally identify with their gender and see no reason to offer up a caveat. We have a multi-racial adopted family, we dont run around clarifying which ones are our 'real' children. It would seem very unlikely that a TG is going to lure straight men into bed and then 'ta-da' for the big reveal...it would seem that this could lead to substantial drama and even a violent retaliation.

So, our opinion, not an issue


Derekl46 55M
240 posts
5/13/2016 11:02 am

I agree 100% with your position but think PC will prohibit this site from acting on the petition out of fear for potential "discrimination" branding and lawsuits. And they will also be branded as haters and racists by the thought control intelligentsia in our country and forced to acquiesce or shut down. So guys and gals nowadays will have to put up with false advertising and in some people's cases, getting their hopes up only to watch things crash down (or in the case of some poor shlub on a date, watching in sheer horror, shock, and revulsion the rising in their dates' pants, shorts or skirt or whatever it is that those people wear.


Derekl46 55M
240 posts
5/13/2016 11:04 am

PS: Was hoping for a nice new picture of you to go into the weekend with; not some trannie.


leftbehind62 62M  
2121 posts
5/13/2016 11:48 am

Make them use an option created by the site to specify they are transexuals! There are obviously many people who are interested in them! BUT I want to know so I can choose not to interact with them thinking they are a Woman! Hard enough on me and other guys as it is!!! PUN intended!!! LMAO! xoxo


mountainman0029 54M

5/13/2016 12:18 pm

I am with you.


1salesman3 69M
7623 posts
5/13/2016 12:20 pm

I agree, be truthful for you gender. I personally only want see females, there is no interest in same sex for me. Great post Sandy.


AlvinBooth 70M
5468 posts
5/13/2016 1:51 pm

I find it curious that of all the A*F*F members that this person has said she has met there hasn't been one complaint that they were duped or lied to. You would think that as big an issue as is being made of this there would be more screams of outrage.

I'm not seeing it.

AB


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stiffun50 71M
52 posts
5/13/2016 2:32 pm

They can cut all the bits off they want...............when they are competing with a certain Sexy blonde they are on a hiding to nothing.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
5/13/2016 3:48 pm

Voted and after you get the results of this survey maybe site support might be interested in the findings. Hugs V

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gooodloven2 70M
381 posts
5/13/2016 7:50 pm

this is a site to meet a sex playmate/lover and passing as some one of the other sex should not be allowed if your trans say so there are folks who are looking for you if your cat fishing get the hell out of here


Shots30 48M
2312 posts
5/14/2016 4:26 am

I am in agreement with you Sandra. You should advertise yourself as the gender you are and not mislead. I am afraid though the organization doesn't care as they have a lot of fakes and other misleading profiles out here. So much probably won't be done.

Cheers!


photon46 76M
339 posts
5/14/2016 9:50 am

While I do get annoyed with profiles where they are one thing posing as another. Most common for me is a couple posing as a woman. Then you read it and it sometimes goes so far to say that the woman does not play, you are getting her husband. That being said, not sure the point on singling out transexuals. Seems to me to be kind of dumb to lie or try to deceive since the truth always comes out eventually. But it smells more of bigotry than a commitment to frankness.


Pulsator552001 63M
132 posts
5/14/2016 9:54 am

So long as the designation "T" appears, I don't object to a transsexual describing him/herself in feminine terms.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
5/14/2016 10:01 am

Agreed


submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
5/14/2016 10:44 am

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AdeptHandsForYou 66M
60 posts
5/14/2016 10:51 am

The deception is a reflection of their own insecurities and shuold not be allowed.


windsjohn 72M  
798 posts
5/14/2016 12:16 pm

People should be honest. Transgender , straight or anything else. We should all be proud of how we are. Men who want to be female should be right up front that they are not but want to be. They should be proud of that. But we all need to be sensitive enough not to try to fool others that we are not what we really are.


blackdude4white 64M

5/14/2016 12:29 pm

I disagreed because I think they should be able to be whoever they want to be. It is up to the guy to simply ask and the trans should tell the truth and go from there. It must be difficult not being male or female. So cut'em a little slack. They just need to open and honest from the get go about who/what they are to anyone who contacts them.


MyHeartLost4U 59M
2487 posts
5/14/2016 1:36 pm

Many did not understand my gripe about being offended by homosexual men or bi-sexual men sending me emails, winks or hotlisting me when it is clear on my profile that I am 100% straight and not interested in men whatsoever. There is something called having respect for another\other individual(s).

So how deeply do you think that I am offended by transsexuals using female profiles when they have a cock and balls between their legs and not a pussy?

Deception is deception no matter how anyone cuts it!!!!

Disrespect is disrespect no matter how one looks at it!!!!


hrdallnght4u 67M

5/14/2016 5:48 pm

Hmmm.. I wonder if they are going to tell the guy they are going to meet that they are packing a cock..or are they going to wait till he reaches down and grabs a hand full of wood....They might take an awful ass kicking..

You can't expect to be Old & Wise..If You were never Young & Crazy!!!


timmy3219 62M
916 posts
5/14/2016 10:58 pm

Fuck that, it's cheating, l could show any picture of someone's else's bits and say there mine, false advertising, fuck off.


gunner4440 49M
2657 posts
5/14/2016 11:00 pm

I happen to think that you should be the gender that your genetalia say you are.

Take it easy, guns are cold.


notsure1949 74M
10657 posts
5/15/2016 8:14 am

there is one man in Philadelphia named Joe that has man, many profiles as a woman with his photo on each, it was reported and he appears at a hottest female member


lovdmaker67 56M
50 posts
5/15/2016 11:18 am

I totally agree they should have their own category and not be put with women


Otis_Good 71M
4037 posts
5/15/2016 1:58 pm

Never really thought about it other than the one man who was bragging that he got free gold from dressing as a woman . And his blog was moved up to the women's section . Of course then he just had to think he was somebody and try to bring the other women down but not without help from a few women bloggers . Now I think that is cheating he now says he is only interested in pussy but that is okay by me too . There are some real Ts that act as a woman 24/7 and when I was working in the pea farm a lot of the inmates called there asshole their pussy . But they all looked like men they didn't have access to computers so as far as I know they weren't on the site much less pretending to be something they aren't .


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
5/15/2016 2:57 pm

closing whit you my blonde hot


Lonely16842 58M
883 posts
5/15/2016 4:38 pm

Definitely in agreement, transparency is always best


lickandsquirt71 55M/51F  
31 posts
5/15/2016 10:30 pm

How about all the countless men they allow to have a couple profile.. Pretty much a dead giveaway if first pics are cock pics and a few old ex pics thrown in at the end...LOL

Definitely Agree!


hunterpt 62M
13507 posts
5/16/2016 2:27 am

I totally agree with you. Kisses


alltheg00dnamesg 70M
606 posts
5/16/2016 7:54 pm

I agree that transgender and men shouldn't use the female profiles, but I'm not sure how the site can always detect people that are trying to mislead others. In this particular case they could, but if the person that intends to mislead others doesn't use their own photo, or any photo, then the site may not have a way to detect dishonesty.


Nibbles2016 63M

5/17/2016 4:34 pm

I think South Park nailed this in an episode about 5 years ago.

Stan's Dad went to Sea World, and made the exclamation that he loved Dolphins. The Mad Scientist offered to make him a "Dolphin", to which he agreed. After a massive surgery, Stan's Dad has his legs sewn together, a tube stitched to the top of his head to breathe through, his arms sewn to his shoulders to mimic fins, and a plastic fin stapled to his back.

He then hopped about, demanding "Dolphin" friendly bathrooms, Dolphin friendly menus at resturants, Dolphin friendly seats at theaters, etc. He wasn't a Dolphin - he was a mutilated man.

Transgendered people are not women/men. Sorry. You have surgically mutilated yourself chasing something you are not. Blaming me, or the world will not fix this issue, the problem lies within you. Blaming me, forcing me to accept you will not fix the problems you have. Sorry, I deal with facts. Forcing women to allow you into their bathrooms invades their privacy - just as if I were to force you to expose yourself to my gaze. For that is PRECISELY what you are doing to others.

Be honest with yourself, be honest with others. People will either accept you for who you are, or they won't. Forcing people will only gain you their animosity.

My opinions are my own, and you can't have them. I give no warranty that my opinions won't change.


hotfun_1966 57M
3677 posts
5/18/2016 3:19 am

I believe in "truth in advertising". Anything else is deception.


hotfun_1966 57M
3677 posts
5/18/2016 9:08 am

    Quoting  :

You are welcome.

I think I need to tweak my fake spotter tips, too.


Sailingshoes111 68M
100 posts
5/19/2016 6:20 am

Its a complicated issue. I do have a problem about a small minority desiding whats right for everyone. Life's not fair. Get over it.


ATLdingdong 32M  
1 post
5/19/2016 8:29 am

I think everyone is free to express their view and live the way they want. if trans people like and want to be treated as everyone else, they'll also have to be bold enough and state as such. There's no reason to pretend to be a fem when you're not.
I am a male, and will state that proudly, so should everyone else.


hotfun_1966 57M
3677 posts
5/19/2016 8:39 am

    Quoting  :

Indeed. Tip #9 has been updated.

For Real Part 2 Spotting the fakes UPDATEDJUN 2017


ranchomongo 70M

5/19/2016 2:23 pm

    Quoting  :

how can it be about morals ,
again i say it has to do with how "she" feels, or how a "he" would feel..
do you have anything against a female blogger being on the top of a Male bog list. if she was a "he".

i hate labels, always have, people would say when i was in grade school that i was slow , or stupid , cause i would put words in when i was reading a book that weren t there.. back then, they called me that, now i m dyslexic. ..

Sandra, know if you have to that you are the top woman on the female bloggers list and she is the top T on the females bloggers list.


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JUSTWANTTOPLEAE4 72M
1720 posts
5/19/2016 5:02 pm

I'm in complete agreement SEXY--I'm not against Transsexuals but I do think they should post pictures of themselves or other TS'S not real women. LYL


diamondave1965 58M
4 posts
5/19/2016 9:41 pm

I think they should be able to post however they want although knowing that that beautiful woman has a gorgeous cock adds a certain deviant desire for me I have been amazed by them since the 1st time I seen one in a Hustler as a teen and all these years later still dream of meeting one


hotfun_1966 57M
3677 posts
5/20/2016 5:19 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks.

It's amazing that I was able to turn years of frustration and exasperation into a guide for spotting fake profiles.

I owe you a good number of "Thank You"s, too, for your tip on fake photos and expanding my tip on deceptive gender profiles.


SexiLuvinGirl 65F
6975 posts
5/20/2016 10:49 am

Totally. They went so far as to claim you and I are friends, which is a crock of BS! I don't know you only through the blogs! I believe in what you've stated. Everyone is saying that this individual is being open. That's BS! If he/she was being open, honest and genuine, he/she would have "MALE" on the profile to begin with. This person is not honest; is misleading people from the get-go. Excuse me! People look at your selves. What part of idiots are you not getting? One guy with a Santa beard wrote in his blog that he posted a commented on your blog that you didn't like and you blocked him. Guess what? I wrote the same thing that I wrote right her saying this person IS NOT GENUINE OR HONEST IF THEY ARE NOT POSTING THEIR CORRECT GENDER ON THEIR PROFILE! He got po'd because I made him look like a fool and he blocked me. He had nothing that he could write in response to that because he knew he was sinking in quick sand! Take that! Go Sandy! Go Sandy!



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hotfun_1966 57M
3677 posts
5/20/2016 2:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Indeed it does.


justthewon1973 50M
21 posts
5/20/2016 5:28 pm

I am sure there are plenty of none transgender folks out there doing the same thing. How do you prove what you are. I don't what to have to do that until I am comfortable with who you are. I am a man but your asking for proof. That means government issued ID or birth certificate and that could be forged, so I would need to get past that hurdle. Then I have a lot more information out there than I want. If she is sexy she can lie to my face in person and I am going to enjoy the encounter, because 9 times out of 10 I'm not getting lucky anyway. So let me have my fantasy. I think if she is pretending to be a lady it is because she is tired of people asking about her manly bits and she dreams of being a princess. These fellas keep coming in here and spoiling that dream when they are really wanting to try being bi and so she lies to have her happiness. It isn't that she wants to hurt you. She just wants to be happy. I am not trying to speak for anyone but I have had friends who felt that way and I can understand it. A pretty lady giving me a lot of attention, the last thing I want is the idiot in the next lane reminding me I left my drink on top of my car. Let me go with where my mind was taking this one. She was almost to the front door. Why do you got to be a fantasy cock blocker. Oh well next thing you know someone will have issues with them using the ladies bathrooms.


justthewon1973 50M
21 posts
5/20/2016 9:34 pm

I am not saying my fantasy. I am talking about theirs, the human beings we are talking about stopping here. I don't know the numbers but there are several men who talk with open transsexuals because they really wanting a gay encounter but they feel more comfortable with the transsexual. The problem is there are a lot of transsexuals that do not want that type of an encounter and they get annoyed by the amount of guys that come onto them that way. Like I said I cant speak for all just some I have had as friends. Ask your friends if they ever felt that way since you are into transsexuals. Well at least you have friends just like I do. I am open to any encounter, but a feminine body is what turns me on. Now like I said "fantasy". Little lady I am a single dad and aint been laid in well over a year. I aint never been with a man even in a non touching threesome. You better believe I like to fantasies. I am sure no women has to lie about her sex. She is a women. She can get sex. Should we get the IDs out to prove they aren't fibbing a little on that age or the body type though. I think we may see the bait and switch there. That is a real shame to because so many men are into so many types of women. I got nothing to lie about. Like I said, mine is a world of fantasy. As long as my hand loves me and the KY don't run dry, give me some free time and let the fantasy run wild. I do have a problem with people asking for my ID. I don't like that information getting out. Been a victim of identity theft one to many times to trust anybody. Like I said. I can always get a fake ID and solve that problem but that just creates another one for you. See and now you are a fantasy cock blocker because when you looked at my profile, I was like look at this sexy thing looking at me right here. Then bam the fantasy collapsed. I wont tell you were you were to, but thank you.


justthewon1973 50M
21 posts
5/21/2016 8:44 pm

I understand what you are saying there. He doesn't know he is talking to a transsexual but someone else he is talking to does. That is a kind of my point. Some people when they are dressed up are hard to tell and they have always associated with being a women. They use the restroom and no one knows it. There are women that are the same way acting as men and associating as men. With restrooms its easy. You build them all with a single stall. How do you really fix that online. Well for one, if that is in the profile somewhere it should be able to be viewed by all. That doesn't stop people from not telling the truth. How do you do that. You really cant. One evening I spent the whole night in a room alone with a gay guy. He was suicidal. I never understood why you would be like that but after that night and hearing his life story I had sympathy for him. If someone saw me leave there the next day and I didn't get laid because of it I would be fine with that because every year on the anniversary of that day he thanks me for saving his life. He didn't try to have sex with me, he didn't come on to me, no he just wanted to end his life because of how he fit into this world and the things that had been done to him as a child. I just simply happened to be in the right place at the right time and wouldn't let that happen. I couldn't help but think what if that was my son. He was younger, in his 20s. He is a human just like you and just like me. If I saw you hurting I would do the same for you. I am just saying not everyone is doing stuff to get over on people. The man claiming to be single when he has a wife and kids or the women out there with her husbands consent when he doesn't know are doing nothing different. I don't mean to take from what you are trying to achieve here but simply put a different light on it for you. Hope your evening is well.


SarahsPinkDress 35T

5/22/2016 11:16 pm

I have to admit... considering this issue could never possibly affect you I'm lead to wonder how much of this is a campaign against "fakes" as an abstract concept and how much is just you wanting it to be VERY explicit that you don't believe transwomen are women.

Fair enough to believe that we are or we aren't, but not quite as fair to want to force your view onto everyone. I'm okay leaving myself in the TS/TV/CD category mostly because it slightly lowers my chances of being murdered by someone in a trans-freakout episode (that's the kind of stuff I get to worry about from every inquirer), but I can't really bring myself to hate a girl who sees herself as a girl describing herself in her own words as a girl.

I know you obviously disagree based on your continuing use of "him" pronouns, but that's the opposing view for ya.

I got skewered pretty badly the last time I bothered to comment on anything when I was trying to defend standard members being able to reply to messages, did they ever regain that ability? Without that, the only people who would be both unable view this member's profile and in communication with them would be those over chat/IM. If no one really felt bad for those members when they just couldn't view messages, I'm a bit surprised so many care now.

~Sarah~


sexcbeach1 42M
314 posts
5/23/2016 5:07 am

your a freakin bigot Ms Sandra. Not the 1st time ive seen u trashing transsexuals. whats your insecurity about them? Its just like people should put there right age up aint it! like certain bloggers trashing transsexuals!


sexcbeach1 42M
314 posts
5/23/2016 5:09 am

There should be a petition to stop bloggers from replying to each other , cause no one else cares about the bullshit u guys go on with!


startthefun13 58M  
146 posts
5/26/2016 11:11 am

if there a T they should use a T profile. there is enough BS on here without having to wounder if its a real women or not.....


jasonwin69 58M

5/29/2016 9:29 am

How anybody feels about themselves does not mesh with reality in many cases.

A guy wants to dress up in gowns, wear heels or cake on the make up, that is up to him.

But it still does not make him a her. The DNA still says "male." no matter how much some people want to deny it.

Posting as a Transgendered person is the only truthful way to do it.


InsectorGadget 43M
96 posts
6/3/2016 12:18 pm

    Quoting Coxswain55:
    I agree - and I also wish that AdultFriendFinder would not let men pose as couples where "the wife isn't participating" or some other BS like that. If you're a "couple" where one of you "doesn't participate", you should not be allowed to use a "couple" profile. Period!
I am part of a couple so I advertise as such, a male whose 'marital status' is attached.


MusicMan83 40M
12 posts
6/5/2016 11:14 pm

Yeah, that just ain't right! People should be & show who they really are anyways. Are they just afraid, insecure & not proud of themselves or something? If so, then they should just buzz off & go back to their parents!


hanssometimes 67M
16 posts
6/6/2016 8:23 am

As I have found on this site, who tells their real age?, honesty doesn't seem to a core value here. Men posing as couples is pretty loserish. TV's and TG's who have the balls to think they can get by as a female should be allowed to experience all the louts on this site. Aren't all of us trying to live out our fantasies and fulfill our desires.


hanssometimes 67M
16 posts
6/6/2016 8:29 am

Oh I forgot where would you class a 'intersex' person (hermaphrodite)


foreplay4ever58 66M
446 posts
6/8/2016 7:26 pm

If you cannot be honest about who you are, or what you are looking for, then why be here?


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