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First Meet  

demonicsexkitten 48F
5157 posts
11/22/2014 4:11 pm

Last Read:
11/28/2014 8:46 am

First Meet

When you meet somebody from this site for the first time... do you go all-out? Dress to the nine's, everything to impress? Or do you just go casual, "This is me" and save the hot, sexy outfits for later?

I typically go for "This is me..." maybe a touch more cleavage than a normal day, and wear my hair loose instead of "I'm busy, have no time to deal with getting caught in chairs, doors, random passing people's hands" (Yes, I did have a woman start playing with my hair once while standing in line at the butcher block).

Of course it makes sense if all you're meeting for is sex that you'd go all-out, sultry and seductive, the fuck-me shoes, the dress with the slit up to here, etc. I try to be more cautious though. "Platonic only, meet, talk, a hug or two, see what happens after that".

I don't own much lingerie. Rather almost none. Blame it on me being a Taurus. "Taurus's love sex. And naked skin." Seems pretty accurate to me and the fellow Taurus' I know. OK: we do all seem to love a lacy g-string now and then....

I'm looking through my wardrobe. White lace g-string which I've worn with a white semi-see through top. In candle-light with soft, romantic "why the hell does my hair only ever look this sexy when I'm having goodbye sex with somebody I love" hair. An Indian Sari or two of see-thru material which I've long wished to wear - by itself - while meeting a lover at the door. Short-shorts that don't count as lingerie but if I bend over you can see EVERYthing (and I have one pair of cutoffs that are a bit shorter than I thought according to one of my neighbors).

I used to have long, lacy lingerie gowns. I love lace, and subtlety. But I think the last one I purchased I gave to my mom because I was so busy being an indoor nudist and never actually wore it.

For now I will stick with sexy lingerie and see-thru tops. or topless.

But I was speaking of public wear... or was I? Incidentally I also wish to show up at a lovers door in nothing but a trench coat. "Hello, stranger"

So... how do you approach a first meet?
Dress to seduce and impress
Just be myself
Be myself, but wear the nicest I own
"Fuck me now"
Other


FreddiesFling 61M
3707 posts
11/22/2014 4:22 pm

Be myself. Something casual... but nice!

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demonicsexkitten replies on 11/22/2014 10:02 pm:
Nice!

by the way: I love your photo. It looks like you're a warm, loving, and happy person. And... one of my fetishes. The soft side of the eye right where the lines appear. Imagine yourself kissed.

kzoopair 72M/71F
25831 posts
11/22/2014 4:42 pm

It's all freshly groomed buffalo robe and a clean loincloth for me- nothing but the best on the first meeting! I'll probably even wash my feet and pick the largest chunks out of my hair.

Strictly casual, seriously. I wouldn't want her to get the idea I was sophisticated.

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demonicsexkitten replies on 11/22/2014 10:08 pm:
Dang!! Here I was, getting all excited... then you told me you were joking about the buffalo robe and clean loincloth. Sigh.

rm_fun4pleaser 69M
462 posts
11/22/2014 5:08 pm

I go for the casual but nicely dressed. I expect the same from the lady, unless we are meeting in a very upscale location so no one looks out of place.
I'd rather both of us be comfortable and not working too hard at impressing the other, since ultimately (hopefully) we will find ourselves tangled up and naked at some point either then or on a subsequent meet.
I will push it up a bit for a possible one time deal to impress a little but I am who I am and I look odd in those red fuck me shoes anyway


demonicsexkitten replies on 11/22/2014 10:14 pm:
Aww... I bet you'd pull off any outfit you wore spectacularly, even red fuck me shoes. haha.

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/22/2014 9:33 pm

I show up as myself, no frills, why throw on airs that you don't have or are.

Be casual, neat and clean and be yourself !!


demonicsexkitten replies on 11/22/2014 10:23 pm:
"Be Myself" ... hahaha. In that case I really might just show up in a Sari. Eclectic... that's me.

Close my eyes, spin around, wear the first outfit I grab from the closet. This could be the start of a new life trend for me hahaha.

Today: I am a business professional, suit, dress shoes, elegant. Tomorrow: a member of a king's harem. Monday: a Celtic warrior princess. Tuesday: a Geisha. Okay... I don't have Geisha-wear, but I do own a kimono. Close enough. Wednesday: Jeans and Tshirt.

dajkiry 65M
1128 posts
11/23/2014 4:29 am

wishes for the meeting, which is pleasant and fun, without any problem ...
be myself, casual clothes with colors that make me feel good, as if it were born only with myself, clean and ready to almost everything ... to drink together and talk and listen ... to ....


demonicsexkitten replies on 11/23/2014 9:39 am:
Thanks Definitely colors that make you feel good. Now I'm curious: Which colors would those be?

My "go to" is maroon. Though I've also had many compliments if I wear turquoise and certain shades of orange. And olive green makes my eyes turn olive green which is fun. Don't wear it often though.

dan_nl_2006 42M
1117 posts
11/23/2014 4:34 am

I would be my self but wear nice --- dont change. but you still have to impress.
Who is the lucky person?


demonicsexkitten replies on 11/23/2014 9:53 am:
Somebody I've been email friends with for a few years. We figure it's about time to meet. Just one of us has to drive a few hours, and I'm jonesing for a road trip.

Incidentally he said I'm more than welcome to show up in nothing but a trench coat hahaha.

I will probably go with my "usual". butt-hugging jeans, low-cut tank top to highlight cleavage, nice shirt over it but not hampering the "view". Casual, comfy, me.

Nuke_N_Naughty 52M/53F

11/23/2014 7:02 pm

When I meet someone for the first time I do like to make a good impression, but I also believe that impression should not involve something fake, so I do like to dress up just a little bit, which for me is a pair of jeans and a nice button-down shirt, not too fancy because I am definitely NOT the fancy kind of guy, unless I NEED to be.

Since you brought the subject up, I do have to say that I absolutely love it when women wear sexy lingerie, especially long and lacy gowns or babydolls. I bet you look really sexy and sultry in them.

Dennis (Idahonuke)
To read about myongoing adventures and journey into the lifestyle:
[blog Idahonuke]


demonicsexkitten replies on 11/23/2014 7:08 pm:
long, lacy gowns: yes. Babydolls: not so much lol.

Long, lacy gowns + my hair done in a certain way gives a very elegant, mischievous, sexy yet victorian-esque lady-like image. At least in my own mind.

I just found a friend that will help me make my Steampunk lingerie outfit

dajkiry 65M
1128 posts
11/24/2014 3:32 am

in the morning,
after raised, washed and made a hearty breakfast, I choose the color of the clothes that I like at that time, and if I have to, or want to change clothes I choose the color that I like at that moment ... for me it is healthy !


demonicsexkitten replies on 11/24/2014 5:39 am:
You're impressive first thing in the morning! I'm usually "Meh. I have clothes on! Be happy I didn't show up to work naked" haha

nudecountryboy2 71M/70F

11/24/2014 3:46 pm

just be myself-----but clean up nice


demonicsexkitten replies on 11/24/2014 5:28 pm:
The last time I met somebody was spur of the moment "I'm in jeans and a tshirt and fishing all day"

On the bright side I also didn't catch anything all day so it was fine. AND I'd forgotten I had a dressy tank top on underneath so I was able to look like I put a tad of effort in.

rm_icemans2014 39M
38 posts
11/28/2014 6:09 am

like to be comfortable and give same so


VerandahPoly 80M  
526 posts
12/13/2014 7:37 am

Meet at the free beach and don't worry about it.


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